Working full time but want to work in nightlife too, doable and fun?

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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May 28, 2017

After reading @cola post about it, I realize I want to do this and I am hoping cool guys like him and @RangerMIke answer this thread instead of older losers who will whine about how horrible nightlife is.

I work full time but have a lot of energy left over for the weekends, want to work in nightlife part time and am wondering if bars and nightclubs would hire someone like me or if they want people who don't actually have a job.

Any thoughts?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.