"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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working at resturant/bar

Don_Marko

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Really good chance that I'll get a hosting job at this resturant/bar in my area. The place is pretty good, relaxed atmospthere, cute girls working, Mexican theme and it gets busy a lot.

I'm thinking if I'm hired it'll be a gold mine for picking up women :D Am I right?

Any experiences????
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I work at a resturant and it's not as good as you'd think. It does happen but numbers are kinda few and far between because you're always doing something.

I work near my college so what does occasionally happen is women who've seen you around or women you haven't seen in a long time will come through and strike up conversations with you, and thats where its at :D
 

FratAndDiddy

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hey bro
a hosting job doesnt give you much "face time" with them.
you will probably do better the the chicks employed there once the evening wears down.
i worked as a bartender a few years and there's more opportunies for face time. never say never though, you just don't know what or may happen. just be careful
 

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Well I'll make sure it's lust at first sight ;)

Thanks for tips!
 

Don_Marko

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I'd say definitely! (mind you I haven't worked yet) and for exacly those two reasons you stated below.

It'd probabbly be even better if you were a bartender and dealt with drunken chicks on daily basis :p
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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