"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Working at a Fast-Food Restaurant

blue17

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Have any of you worked at a fast food restaurant before? If so, how did you find the experience?

I have connections to get a job at A&W, but I really have a bad attitude toward fast food restuarants. If I worked there, it would prolly only be once or twice a week. But still I'd like to work at a place where I'm not suffering through the day counting the minutes till it's over.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Cheiradawg

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Originally posted by blue17
I have connections to get a job at A&W,
haha
anyway...

All restuarants jobs are basically the same. There are servers, cooks, and managers.

Servers (cash register/drive through at ff joints) -take orders during the busy times and clean/set up the store during slow times.

Cooks- cook the food to order, clean up the kitchen, and do food prep. during the slow times.

Working at either place you probally won't be suffering through the day. Something cna always be cleaned or organized.
 

Tryin to Grow a Chin

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I had numerous fast food jobs when I was younger. They seemed torturous at the time, but compared to real work they're nothing too intense. Like most jobs, if there are cool people working there you might actually have fun, or will at least be under the illusion that you thoroughly enjoyed it, looking back years later. I'm not exactly clear on why you'd ask for advice on such a meager job though.
 

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Fast food restaurants are excellent places to enhance your social skills, and your c/f skills if you work at it. You're forced to be in a work environment where communication is necessary. I really enhanced my social and c/f skills working at a fast food joint. People highly enjoyed working with me because I was a lot of fun. Women were also naturally attracted to me.
 

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I've worked at four different restaurants. My conclusion, working with food fvcking blows.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Mr. Mystery II

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You should get a job at Popeyes. There you are encouraged to be an A-hole to any and every customer that walks in the door. Half the charm of Popeyes is the sh*t you get from the people that work there, the other half is the awesome food!

If you don't have any "connections" at Popeyes, you should work on your education, resume, do community service, and kiss some a$$, and you might just be able to get a job there.

Mr. Mystery
 

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Ive worked at a coffee shop and it blowed gigantic gorilla balls. I cant even come close to fathoming what it would be like to work at some scumbagg fast food joint like mickey d's or bk.

Damn that would suck and honestly I am too good for that type of work and thats aside from the fact that theres a reason all the losers work at those places.
 

Dust 2 Dust

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I highly recommend the fast food industry. Fast food jobs will open up many opportunities you never thought possible.
 
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