"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Working as a Bus Boy

green69

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Has anyone here had a bus boy job in a restaurant? How did you like it? Did you meet people while you were working there?

I'm looking for a part-time job this summer (like 20 hours a week) and I'm considering getting a job as a bus boy. I'm also contemplating getting my bar tending license as well so that I can hopefully move up to becoming a bartender at some point. Anyone have any experiences or recommendations?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Kal0051

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I'm thinking of doing something similar. Though I'm probably getting a job as a barback in a high end casual bar and restaurant. Hopefully will become a bartender or server there soon.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Money over *****es...
 
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