"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Working as a Bus Boy

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Has anyone here had a bus boy job in a restaurant? How did you like it? Did you meet people while you were working there?

I'm looking for a part-time job this summer (like 20 hours a week) and I'm considering getting a job as a bus boy. I'm also contemplating getting my bar tending license as well so that I can hopefully move up to becoming a bartender at some point. Anyone have any experiences or recommendations?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm thinking of doing something similar. Though I'm probably getting a job as a barback in a high end casual bar and restaurant. Hopefully will become a bartender or server there soon.
 
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Money over *****es...
 
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