"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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So there is this girl I'm working with. Basically what Ive been doing is joking around with her, and teasing her from time to time. I get a good reaction, from her, for example, shes talking with some customers about some movie and I passed by and said "nobody cares" and she gave me that look like wtf but she was smiling. Then about 5 minutes later she came looking for me to tell me that: "I wasnt talking to you ok!?" and she was obviously embarassed. So Ive teased her like this a few times and made her crack up at my jokes too. Also I've tried ignoring her or just making it seem that I was too busy or had something on my mind or whatever the reason was i just wasnt treating her the same way with the teasing and joking. So how does this sound? I dont think its working because there are no signs that she likes me. Any help would be great.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Ask her for her number. Then you'll know if she likes you.
 
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VIVAlasVEGASBaby said:
Ask her for her number. Then you'll know if she likes you.
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i dont want to do that because it would let her know that im interested in her.]

and not only that but if i do that i wouldnt be able to work on her anymore because i could get rejected, so she would know what'sup, you know? I want to get her to like me without giving her the ability to reject me.
 
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What's wrong with showing interest? If you aren't willing to take the plunge then you won't find out. Better to get rejected than to completely miss an opportunity.

If you're still a little too shy to ask for her number, then you can try a few things to gauge her interest to build up your confidence.

Let her catch you checkin her out. Hold eye contact for a second and give kinda a half smile and look away. You can get a feel for her interest by how she reacts. If you feel good then wait for the right time and ask her if she wants to hang out some time. Doesn't have to be anything too nuts.

High school girls like a MAN who takes ACTION.
 
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