"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Work vs Life

zerocelcius

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I am loosing my motivation for the game. I have become very buisy and have side projects and work, and am trying to get some artists off their ass' too..... GRRRRRrrrrrrrrr....

I Truthfully don't have time to play any more. I don't even have the motivation to but my game is suffering from it.

How do you stay motivated and what are some good ways to balance all my professional **** with my personal ****....

By the way not to many prospects in my 9 to 5 (really 12:30 am to 10:00 am).
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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So pimp its scary

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You either make the time, or you wallow in your own self-pity about how you don't have the motivation to find a woman(or whatever excuse you're gonna use).
 

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Originally posted by zerocelcius


How do you stay motivated and what are some good ways to balance all my professional **** with my personal ****....

By the way not to many prospects in my 9 to 5 (really 12:30 am to 10:00 am).

you're probably letting yourself go....understand that diet & sleep are KEY to being balanced enough to play the game!
 

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Originally posted by So pimp its scary
You either make the time, or you wallow in your own self-pity about how you don't have the motivation to find a woman(or whatever excuse you're gonna use).
That is the kinda answer I was looking for. It was a dark day I wrote that, but since then I have bounced back. Thanks!!
 

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yea its not so bad...
use what you have as an advantage...

girls will take you 10 times more seriously that you have a job...independent... and they dig busy guyz..so you will be more effective with women you meet...so you don't need to meet that many women!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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