"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I am loosing my motivation for the game. I have become very buisy and have side projects and work, and am trying to get some artists off their ass' too..... GRRRRRrrrrrrrrr....

I Truthfully don't have time to play any more. I don't even have the motivation to but my game is suffering from it.

How do you stay motivated and what are some good ways to balance all my professional **** with my personal ****....

By the way not to many prospects in my 9 to 5 (really 12:30 am to 10:00 am).
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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You either make the time, or you wallow in your own self-pity about how you don't have the motivation to find a woman(or whatever excuse you're gonna use).
 
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Originally posted by zerocelcius


How do you stay motivated and what are some good ways to balance all my professional **** with my personal ****....

By the way not to many prospects in my 9 to 5 (really 12:30 am to 10:00 am).
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you're probably letting yourself go....understand that diet & sleep are KEY to being balanced enough to play the game!
 
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Originally posted by So pimp its scary
You either make the time, or you wallow in your own self-pity about how you don't have the motivation to find a woman(or whatever excuse you're gonna use).
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That is the kinda answer I was looking for. It was a dark day I wrote that, but since then I have bounced back. Thanks!!
 
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yea its not so bad...
use what you have as an advantage...

girls will take you 10 times more seriously that you have a job...independent... and they dig busy guyz..so you will be more effective with women you meet...so you don't need to meet that many women!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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