"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Work on Valentines day

SDBmania

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I going to be working tomarrow(Valentines day), so I thought that I could work on some good C@F stuff. When some atractive laides come up, I plan on saying something like:

"I bet you got something special planned tonight!"

Or to that effect. What a great way to find out if a girl is single or not, plus you don't look like your coming on to her at first. I'll think of more stuff once I'm at work and in my element. Share what you have done, you single DJs, for Valentines day. And I'll get back to you after tomarrow or sooner to give a report.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'm working today as well, but thats just the way it goes. Happy valentines day to everyone especially my girlfriend. Here is a big kiss over the internet. KKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKKIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIIISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSs.
 
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That's cool. I am actually glad that I am working tomarrow. This will give be a great oppourtunety. At least, for us single guys!
 

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Oh well.......

It was too busy today for me to really work my good lines however, I did get some good jokes and c&f stuff in. Just the usual. Oh well, no biggie. Any of you worker bees do better than me tonight? Oh, I see, you'll tell me tomarrow!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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