"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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gruby

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I'm often endup as a director of photography on various films/commercials/what not. Usually it's a low budget work but i try to give the best out of teh limited lighting settup and such. Anyway i discovered that:
a). women love camera and the person behind it.
b). by at the end of the workday you feel so good that you project (no, not only think) but actually ARE so cofident that even without the camera women smill at you.

Just, please don't end up as one of the loosers who assumes that the movie set will cover up his insecurities.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I don't doubt what you say, gruby. You're in a position of power on the set, the man behind the camera.
 

gruby

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Yeah, choosing field based on taht would be pretty stupid. I was just stating facts.
 
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