"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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gruby

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I'm often endup as a director of photography on various films/commercials/what not. Usually it's a low budget work but i try to give the best out of teh limited lighting settup and such. Anyway i discovered that:
a). women love camera and the person behind it.
b). by at the end of the workday you feel so good that you project (no, not only think) but actually ARE so cofident that even without the camera women smill at you.

Just, please don't end up as one of the loosers who assumes that the movie set will cover up his insecurities.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I don't doubt what you say, gruby. You're in a position of power on the set, the man behind the camera.
 

gruby

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Yeah, choosing field based on taht would be pretty stupid. I was just stating facts.
 
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