"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Words of Wisdom

Jakeg123

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So I ended something that was on and off for about a year. Probably 2 or 3 weeks ago. Around that same time I fractured my heel, so I have a sexy ass boot on my foot. So it's been a little hard to get the girl off my mind, I have other girls to talk to but I'm not hooking up with them. And sarging at a mall or somewhere like that is a little tough to do with a foot I can't do much walking on. I figured it always helps to get some words of wisdom for those that are in a rut. Only 3 weeks until college, where girls grow on trees, in the mean time, say something productive to help a brother get his mind off of things or get her out of it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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FlyGuyM

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sorry you didnt get any replys man, but theres nothing much to do.. i guess go on facebook and friend hot girls
 

lili19771

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FlyGuyM said:
sorry you didnt get any replys man, but theres nothing much to do.. i guess go on facebook and friend hot girls
Follow this guy's advice so that you can be known as that creep who keeps adding girls that dont know him
 
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