"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Words From A Girl I Went Out WIth

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"I'm tired of the bar scene. I'm over it now and don't like to drink or be around drunk people any more. I mean if it were married 35 year old people at the bar I wouldn't mind as much. Not single 35 year olds."

I don't know what she was telling me, but I do see that she thinks everyone in her age group is taken, she's 24, and that all that are out there are throw backs.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Quit trying to analyze a simple off hand comment.
 

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I'm not analyzing it at all. And to actually consider it an off-hand comment is a little weak.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I don't listen to girls anymore. They're so full of BS it's not even funny anymore. Notice I said "girls" as in "hyper active high school girls bent on nefarious schemes to move themselves ahead in high school." See, I listen to women like my mom and teachers....partly because I have to but mostly because they have no use in feeding me BS.

I swear, I'm so good at pretending to hear what they say I could pass for a deaf guy.

Well...not that good. How I wish sometimes...:(
 
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