"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Words From A Girl I Went Out WIth

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"I'm tired of the bar scene. I'm over it now and don't like to drink or be around drunk people any more. I mean if it were married 35 year old people at the bar I wouldn't mind as much. Not single 35 year olds."

I don't know what she was telling me, but I do see that she thinks everyone in her age group is taken, she's 24, and that all that are out there are throw backs.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Quit trying to analyze a simple off hand comment.
 
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I'm not analyzing it at all. And to actually consider it an off-hand comment is a little weak.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I don't listen to girls anymore. They're so full of BS it's not even funny anymore. Notice I said "girls" as in "hyper active high school girls bent on nefarious schemes to move themselves ahead in high school." See, I listen to women like my mom and teachers....partly because I have to but mostly because they have no use in feeding me BS.

I swear, I'm so good at pretending to hear what they say I could pass for a deaf guy.

Well...not that good. How I wish sometimes...:(
 
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