"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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supajsilver2

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See if you can understand this, I need some help.



I had some friends over earlier today, and we talked to some girl none of us really knew, one of my friends started messing with her, typing in all caps and repeating things just because we were bored. Later, she had an away message up, and we swore, typed song lyrics with vulgarity, and we were cracking up--turns out that girl was friends with my friend's girlfriend, word got around to her, and my friend's girlfriend is best friends with my girlfriend, who will definetly tell. It sounds childish, but my girlfriend is really shy, doesn't swear, she's going to find out about this.:(
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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supajsilver2

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Not drunk, not high, just really, really, bored.


I'm not a bad person, I'm a 4.0, I'm an athlete, I was just stupid then...
 

Michael Chief

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Dude, you were just messin around. no troubles there.

"dominant frame wins." If these girls are convincing you that you and your friends caused alot of trouble, then you aren't being the dominant male. You must set the mindframe that you guys were just joking around - and if they cant take a joke, then thats too bad for them.
 
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