"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Word gets around

supajsilver2

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See if you can understand this, I need some help.



I had some friends over earlier today, and we talked to some girl none of us really knew, one of my friends started messing with her, typing in all caps and repeating things just because we were bored. Later, she had an away message up, and we swore, typed song lyrics with vulgarity, and we were cracking up--turns out that girl was friends with my friend's girlfriend, word got around to her, and my friend's girlfriend is best friends with my girlfriend, who will definetly tell. It sounds childish, but my girlfriend is really shy, doesn't swear, she's going to find out about this.:(
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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supajsilver2

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Not drunk, not high, just really, really, bored.


I'm not a bad person, I'm a 4.0, I'm an athlete, I was just stupid then...
 

Michael Chief

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Dude, you were just messin around. no troubles there.

"dominant frame wins." If these girls are convincing you that you and your friends caused alot of trouble, then you aren't being the dominant male. You must set the mindframe that you guys were just joking around - and if they cant take a joke, then thats too bad for them.
 
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