"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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supajsilver2

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See if you can understand this, I need some help.



I had some friends over earlier today, and we talked to some girl none of us really knew, one of my friends started messing with her, typing in all caps and repeating things just because we were bored. Later, she had an away message up, and we swore, typed song lyrics with vulgarity, and we were cracking up--turns out that girl was friends with my friend's girlfriend, word got around to her, and my friend's girlfriend is best friends with my girlfriend, who will definetly tell. It sounds childish, but my girlfriend is really shy, doesn't swear, she's going to find out about this.:(
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Not drunk, not high, just really, really, bored.


I'm not a bad person, I'm a 4.0, I'm an athlete, I was just stupid then...
 

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Dude, you were just messin around. no troubles there.

"dominant frame wins." If these girls are convincing you that you and your friends caused alot of trouble, then you aren't being the dominant male. You must set the mindframe that you guys were just joking around - and if they cant take a joke, then thats too bad for them.
 
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