"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Won't talk about break-up

ThisNThat

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I have a friend of mine who has been doing online dating for a while. We've typically shared our experiences, most of which it's a lot of first dates or they ghosted or whatever.

But then he met this woman he thought things were going very well, I was happy for him and he was even discussing future dating plans about her already. He was actually relieved to looking forward to getting off the online train.

About a week later, I called him up and asked him how things were with him and her. And he was really crass and said, "It didn't work out, that's all I'm going to say and I don't want to talk about it."

I was like , "Dude, What happened? Things were going so well."

Him: Like I said, I don't want to talk about it.

I didn't press after that, but I was kind of stunned that he wouldn't even give me a hint, but hey it's his choice.

I know him to the point where I know he doesn't like discussing negative experiences, even if it's non-dating related...so maybe that's it. But, yeah, must've been a brutal situation.

Do you know people that were so burned after a break up it, they refused to even say anything about it?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Glassguy

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Just curious, how do I block you and the silly sh!t that you post?
 

resilient

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I got you covered, @Glassguy

1. Click your username in the top right-hand corner of forum
2. Click "People You Ignore"
3. Enter the username in Member to Ignore: _______
4. Save Changes
 

Julian

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Lol i will not block OP...responses and the threads themselves are pretty lulz worthy
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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