"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Won't talk about break-up

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I have a friend of mine who has been doing online dating for a while. We've typically shared our experiences, most of which it's a lot of first dates or they ghosted or whatever.

But then he met this woman he thought things were going very well, I was happy for him and he was even discussing future dating plans about her already. He was actually relieved to looking forward to getting off the online train.

About a week later, I called him up and asked him how things were with him and her. And he was really crass and said, "It didn't work out, that's all I'm going to say and I don't want to talk about it."

I was like , "Dude, What happened? Things were going so well."

Him: Like I said, I don't want to talk about it.

I didn't press after that, but I was kind of stunned that he wouldn't even give me a hint, but hey it's his choice.

I know him to the point where I know he doesn't like discussing negative experiences, even if it's non-dating related...so maybe that's it. But, yeah, must've been a brutal situation.

Do you know people that were so burned after a break up it, they refused to even say anything about it?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Just curious, how do I block you and the silly sh!t that you post?
 

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I got you covered, @Glassguy

1. Click your username in the top right-hand corner of forum
2. Click "People You Ignore"
3. Enter the username in Member to Ignore: _______
4. Save Changes
 

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Lol i will not block OP...responses and the threads themselves are pretty lulz worthy
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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