Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Won't make up her mind...

Fable

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Okay, so I've been lurking for a while before I signed up, but regardless, I couldn't really find a thread that matches my situation.

So, basically, first she says she likes me, then she says she doesn't, then she says she doesn't know. Is she just trying to keep me open as a fall-back plan cause she knows I like her?

What action should I take right now, I mean, I've been trying to get her to just say it for the past two days, but she just says that she can't tell me. wtf.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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EdHunter

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Give us some background, man.
 

The Shocker

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walk away.
 

foomee

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Go talk to other girls, keep her in mind though, mainly as backup.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Ignore her and cut off contact for awhile. Give her the gift of missing you.

If she does like you.. She will start to miss you and probably come crawling back.

From my experience: In 1 situation I stopped talking and seeing a girl for like a month and a half. Then, one day out the blue she calls me wanting to hang out and see me more.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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