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Won't make up her mind...

Fable

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Okay, so I've been lurking for a while before I signed up, but regardless, I couldn't really find a thread that matches my situation.

So, basically, first she says she likes me, then she says she doesn't, then she says she doesn't know. Is she just trying to keep me open as a fall-back plan cause she knows I like her?

What action should I take right now, I mean, I've been trying to get her to just say it for the past two days, but she just says that she can't tell me. wtf.
 

EdHunter

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Give us some background, man.
 

The Shocker

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walk away.
 

foomee

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Go talk to other girls, keep her in mind though, mainly as backup.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Ignore her and cut off contact for awhile. Give her the gift of missing you.

If she does like you.. She will start to miss you and probably come crawling back.

From my experience: In 1 situation I stopped talking and seeing a girl for like a month and a half. Then, one day out the blue she calls me wanting to hang out and see me more.
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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