"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Won't make up her mind...

Fable

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Okay, so I've been lurking for a while before I signed up, but regardless, I couldn't really find a thread that matches my situation.

So, basically, first she says she likes me, then she says she doesn't, then she says she doesn't know. Is she just trying to keep me open as a fall-back plan cause she knows I like her?

What action should I take right now, I mean, I've been trying to get her to just say it for the past two days, but she just says that she can't tell me. wtf.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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EdHunter

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Give us some background, man.
 

The Shocker

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walk away.
 

foomee

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Go talk to other girls, keep her in mind though, mainly as backup.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Ignore her and cut off contact for awhile. Give her the gift of missing you.

If she does like you.. She will start to miss you and probably come crawling back.

From my experience: In 1 situation I stopped talking and seeing a girl for like a month and a half. Then, one day out the blue she calls me wanting to hang out and see me more.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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