"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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First time posting here, although I have been lurking for quite a while.

I need some advice on a girl. I'm a sophmore and the girl in question is a junior. She keeps sending me signals that she likes me, but I'm not sure if it's just a huge joke. Reasons being:

1. Well, she's a junior...
2. She's around an 8 or 9 (compared to the rest of the school) wheras I'm a 4 or 5
3. She only occasionally even talks to me, other times, she'll just outright ignore me.

I'm just wondering how I should procede with this...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Do you two have any mutual friends? If you do, ask one of them what they think.

If she tends to smile a lot around you and is interested in what you have to say, that could be a sign.
 

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madseason said:
Do you two have any mutual friends? If you do, ask one of them what they think.

If she tends to smile a lot around you and is interested in what you have to say, that could be a sign.
Well, she's hardly ever around me. She has actually said she likes me several times, but I still think that she's just joking. I do know one of her friends that is on the track team with me, so I could ask her. Then again, I'm not sure if this friend likes me too because she shows signs too. :crazy:
 

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quit worrying and thinking so much. your ****ing nothing right now. establish that. look at yourself. your a loser, sitting here racking your brain over who likes you and who doesnt. your pathetic. which is what i used to be, putting me in a great position:

youve got nothing to lose.

ask her out. she said she likes you, and unless her friends laugh hysterically when your name comes up, its not a joke. dont go asking her if she likes you and ****, act like a man. ask her number. call two days later. preferablly a monday tuesday or at latest wednesday. ask her out for friday or saturday night. a movie is safe but boring, if you drive ask around for parties and if you dont drive she surely does. call her up, tell her you guys should get to some parties or whatever saturday night, and if she laughs and says no or whatever say 'not my loss' hangup and laugh at the rejection.

then move on.

you got better things to do than waste your life wondering, its such a misuse of time.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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dannowillbookem said:
quit worrying and thinking so much. your ****ing nothing right now. establish that. look at yourself. your a loser, sitting here racking your brain over who likes you and who doesnt. your pathetic. which is what i used to be, putting me in a great position:

youve got nothing to lose.

ask her out. she said she likes you, and unless her friends laugh hysterically when your name comes up, its not a joke. dont go asking her if she likes you and ****, act like a man. ask her number. call two days later. preferablly a monday tuesday or at latest wednesday. ask her out for friday or saturday night. a movie is safe but boring, if you drive ask around for parties and if you dont drive she surely does. call her up, tell her you guys should get to some parties or whatever saturday night, and if she laughs and says no or whatever say 'not my loss' hangup and laugh at the rejection.

then move on.

you got better things to do than waste your life wondering, its such a misuse of time.
You know what, I think I will the next time I see her. Which might be for awhile since I hardly ever see her anyway. Oh well, guess I won't worry about it until it comes up.
 
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