"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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First time posting here, although I have been lurking for quite a while.

I need some advice on a girl. I'm a sophmore and the girl in question is a junior. She keeps sending me signals that she likes me, but I'm not sure if it's just a huge joke. Reasons being:

1. Well, she's a junior...
2. She's around an 8 or 9 (compared to the rest of the school) wheras I'm a 4 or 5
3. She only occasionally even talks to me, other times, she'll just outright ignore me.

I'm just wondering how I should procede with this...
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Do you two have any mutual friends? If you do, ask one of them what they think.

If she tends to smile a lot around you and is interested in what you have to say, that could be a sign.
 
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madseason said:
Do you two have any mutual friends? If you do, ask one of them what they think.

If she tends to smile a lot around you and is interested in what you have to say, that could be a sign.
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Well, she's hardly ever around me. She has actually said she likes me several times, but I still think that she's just joking. I do know one of her friends that is on the track team with me, so I could ask her. Then again, I'm not sure if this friend likes me too because she shows signs too. :crazy:
 
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quit worrying and thinking so much. your ****ing nothing right now. establish that. look at yourself. your a loser, sitting here racking your brain over who likes you and who doesnt. your pathetic. which is what i used to be, putting me in a great position:

youve got nothing to lose.

ask her out. she said she likes you, and unless her friends laugh hysterically when your name comes up, its not a joke. dont go asking her if she likes you and ****, act like a man. ask her number. call two days later. preferablly a monday tuesday or at latest wednesday. ask her out for friday or saturday night. a movie is safe but boring, if you drive ask around for parties and if you dont drive she surely does. call her up, tell her you guys should get to some parties or whatever saturday night, and if she laughs and says no or whatever say 'not my loss' hangup and laugh at the rejection.

then move on.

you got better things to do than waste your life wondering, its such a misuse of time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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dannowillbookem said:
quit worrying and thinking so much. your ****ing nothing right now. establish that. look at yourself. your a loser, sitting here racking your brain over who likes you and who doesnt. your pathetic. which is what i used to be, putting me in a great position:

youve got nothing to lose.

ask her out. she said she likes you, and unless her friends laugh hysterically when your name comes up, its not a joke. dont go asking her if she likes you and ****, act like a man. ask her number. call two days later. preferablly a monday tuesday or at latest wednesday. ask her out for friday or saturday night. a movie is safe but boring, if you drive ask around for parties and if you dont drive she surely does. call her up, tell her you guys should get to some parties or whatever saturday night, and if she laughs and says no or whatever say 'not my loss' hangup and laugh at the rejection.

then move on.

you got better things to do than waste your life wondering, its such a misuse of time.
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You know what, I think I will the next time I see her. Which might be for awhile since I hardly ever see her anyway. Oh well, guess I won't worry about it until it comes up.
 
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