Wondering about this situation...

[Caldus]

I sit with two of my friends in this one class. I sit next to this hot chick. Problem is it's hard to meet the hot girls in that class since I'm with two of my friends. Not sure how to start talking to her while my friends are around and stuff. Sounds stupid I know. I mean I don't even know the girl yet but I want to see how things would turn out you know? I don't know what it is but I just can't talk to women if I'm with my friends in class. Anyone else in this type of situation?

 

[Thundercat]

Use your friends to your advantage. You have a built-in support group in this situation. And if your friends give you a hard time about trying to mack on a girl, then they aren't really very good friends.

Break the ice by asking her something about the class and then talk to her. Once you get to know her, invite her to a party or out for a drink after class or something. Just tell your friends you'll catch up later.

Thundercat

 

[Caldus]

I have no problem approaching a girl by myself but if I'm with friends then it makes it a lot more difficult. I don't know why. An irrational fear I suppose. I guess I'll just try to spark some conversation with her at some point and see how it goes from there.

 

[Thundercat]

Approaching women when friends are around can be problematic because you want to stay in the comfort zone you have with your friends as opposed to meeting women. But sometimes you just gotta leave them behind and go for it. They'll understand. =)

Thundercat

 

[Caldus]

Oh well, there are tons of cute chicks in my other classes. Definitely going to try with this one girl at some point. Just trying to think of a good way to approach her. In the past I always just caught the girl after class and introduced myself but I want it to look natural if that makes any sense. In other words I don't want to make it seem like I'm desperate (I was desperate last semester but not this one).