Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I'd suggest that the above is not 'biological' but a residue of the old culture [middle class bourgeois], which itself was a secularization of the old religion. It is a cultural conflict at play, competing narrative forces, within your own psyche.
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Soooo true. They have conditioned us to not give a fu*k. I keep telling women, players are not born...they are made. Being flaked on, ghost and rejected turns the most idealistic of men into womanizers and "jerks".
Ironically, the tightest vagina I have ever sampled was in Amsterdam; this gal knew how to control her muscles (she told me how she has worked on them!) - like a freaking vice grip!
