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Women's Horniness Drops Drastically in Winter

joesbigship

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To be honest, it seems like my own sex drive seems to drop in the winter as well. I'm just assuming the warmer weather and sunshine energizes us, and our sex drive is just one aspect of how our mood changes in general.

The weather is much warmer this fall than in the past for whatever reasons, but of course the days are much shorter so that has an impact on mood as well.

Anyone else notice this? I saw some very pretty girls yesterday, but I was like 'meh.' 3 months ago I probably would've been feeling some kinda way.

As a very broad impression, it seems like women check me out less, are lower energy in general and just not as playful in the fall and winter.

Anyone else notice this?
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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I've never thought about it before, but I'll bet it has to do with the amount of sunlight we absorb in the summer -> Vitamin D production -> hormone levels, etc etc.
 

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One aspect is that women wear less appealing outfits in the winter because it's cold so most of them can't go out in minis or crop tops in under 50 degrees.

Another is that since there's less to do when you go out, people who are out will be more inclined to only be out because they have to be (work, school, groceries, etc.) Rather than hanging out socially.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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One aspect is that women wear less appealing outfits in the winter because it's cold so most of them can't go out in minis or crop tops in under 50 degrees.

Another is that since there's less to do when you go out, people who are out will be more inclined to only be out because they have to be (work, school, groceries, etc.) Rather than hanging out socially.
I've seen women walk around in short skirts and petty tops while it's 50 degrees or lower on a Friday and Saturday night. Do not underestimate a woman's desire to show her skin, even while she's huddled together with her other friends like fools freezing their asses off.
 

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Ive alqays been a spring guy. I get what your saying. Must be the sun light
I can see that. Warmer temps and spring coming after winter with more people out and about and you can almost feel increased personal energy and excitement in the air. The seasons do effect moods to a certain extent, and female availability, but people can be horny all year long…
That’s not seasonal
 

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If she participates in "No-Shave November" then yeah....

But seriously...Why do you think "Cuffing season" is in the Fall?

 

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If she participates in "No-Shave November" then yeah....

But seriously...Why do you think "Cuffing season" is in the Fall?

Cuffing season could be a factor too. If there's less single girls around then you'd get less attention, IOIs and receptiveness.
 

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In the Southern U.S. with mild winters, sex drives are still good.
 

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There's probably some truth to this...

If you compare indigenous groups of people in warm climates vs. cold climates, I would say the warm climate people are naturally more promiscuous. This is actually the evolutionary reason why (on average) darker skinned people have larger penises than lighter skinned people.

Darker skin means your ancestors spent a lot of time in the Sun. Lighter skin means your ancestors were most likely in caves due to cold. A reduction in penis size is a way to stop heat loss from the body.

Now of course this doesn't necessarily translate to daily life in 2021, I'm just saying that it might be rooted in some reality.
 

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In the northern hemisphere, there's pair-bonding pressure due to the holiday season, in addition to the cold weather getting rid of skimpy clothing and promoting romantic-style cuddling to keep warm.

I'd be interested to know how this plays out in Australia when the Holidays are in the summertime.

Assuming you guys can still leave your houses, that is.
 

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Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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I suppose there's no way to tell unless girls are horny for YOU in particular and then you notice a consistent seasonal dropoff.

For guys who never get IOI's, never get approached or never approach for that matter, I can see why this would be merely an abstraction.
 

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Definitely notice a difference in general vibe out in public during summer months by the beach. People wearing next to nothing must put them in a certain mood, more than suffling around wearing bulky coats, scarves, hats etc that hide their natural shape, flesh etc. People probably feel more uncomfortable due to the weather, so less likely to be 'in the mood' as often.
 
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