"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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women wont respect you till they feel you are disgusted with them?

foreverAFC

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the women at work seem to only be nice or respectful after they realize i find their behavior disgusting and lame, why is this?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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hahahah i experience the same effect its weird aasss fvck man...

or if you dont talk to them much or lets just say u conversate with them once and then when you see them again and dont talk to them no more and just go about your business everytime you see them they go bezerk trying to get your attention hahahaha...
 

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They want you to act like a man. It's possible that they behave the way they do in order to elicit that reaction from you. Same principle as sh1t tests.

(The censorship on this board is the lamest thing ever, especially when so much of the subject matter involves things like fvcking...)
 

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Jair213 said:
hahahah i experience the same effect its weird aasss fvck man...

or if you dont talk to them much or lets just say u conversate with them once and then when you see them again and dont talk to them no more and just go about your business everytime you see them they go bezerk trying to get your attention hahahaha...
^This, exactly.
 

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Driggs said:
They want you to act like a man. It's possible that they behave the way they do in order to elicit that reaction from you. Same principle as sh1t tests.
they want me to be annoyed? that will give them the impression that im a real man??


Driggs said:
(The censorship on this board is the lamest thing ever, especially when so much of the subject matter involves things like fvcking...)
this forum censors the word ******, thats right i said be@ver
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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I dont think disgusted is the right term, I believe that condescending of their stupidity fits more.

It seems like they get turned on from being bossed around and reproached anytime they do something stupid or inappropriate, emphaty and tollerance obtains the opposite effect.
 
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