"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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women wont respect you till they feel you are disgusted with them?

foreverAFC

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the women at work seem to only be nice or respectful after they realize i find their behavior disgusting and lame, why is this?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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hahahah i experience the same effect its weird aasss fvck man...

or if you dont talk to them much or lets just say u conversate with them once and then when you see them again and dont talk to them no more and just go about your business everytime you see them they go bezerk trying to get your attention hahahaha...
 

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They want you to act like a man. It's possible that they behave the way they do in order to elicit that reaction from you. Same principle as sh1t tests.

(The censorship on this board is the lamest thing ever, especially when so much of the subject matter involves things like fvcking...)
 

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Jair213 said:
hahahah i experience the same effect its weird aasss fvck man...

or if you dont talk to them much or lets just say u conversate with them once and then when you see them again and dont talk to them no more and just go about your business everytime you see them they go bezerk trying to get your attention hahahaha...
^This, exactly.
 

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Driggs said:
They want you to act like a man. It's possible that they behave the way they do in order to elicit that reaction from you. Same principle as sh1t tests.
they want me to be annoyed? that will give them the impression that im a real man??


Driggs said:
(The censorship on this board is the lamest thing ever, especially when so much of the subject matter involves things like fvcking...)
this forum censors the word ******, thats right i said be@ver
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Who Dares Win

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I dont think disgusted is the right term, I believe that condescending of their stupidity fits more.

It seems like they get turned on from being bossed around and reproached anytime they do something stupid or inappropriate, emphaty and tollerance obtains the opposite effect.
 
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