"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Women Without Makeup Pictures: You'll never be Intimidated Again
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
I know - sometimes I think that if it was socially exceptable to wear makeup and I did then my hangups would disappear.
But it's not just makeup - it's TV and magazine's - They're so much post processing now that they can make anyone look decent - Look at Oprah.
Porn/TV/Magazines/Movies all give us an unrealistic image. The only people who look like that naturally are 21 and under.
So those guys who are still that young, remember that. Don't put it off until later because girls go SERIOUSLY downhill after around 25.
But it's not just makeup - it's TV and magazine's - They're so much post processing now that they can make anyone look decent - Look at Oprah.
Porn/TV/Magazines/Movies all give us an unrealistic image. The only people who look like that naturally are 21 and under.
So those guys who are still that young, remember that. Don't put it off until later because girls go SERIOUSLY downhill after around 25.
ShizamDaMan
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Thank God for being a man, and not having to put on 90% of our look after getting out of bed. A lot of times I've rolled out of bed, thrown on a shirt, and went to class and could still flirt with the hot chicks in my bed.
Imagine some girl who was only hot with makeup talking to you 10 minutes after getting out of bed. Or the no-makeup picture of Pam Anderson. Yikes.
Imagine some girl who was only hot with makeup talking to you 10 minutes after getting out of bed. Or the no-makeup picture of Pam Anderson. Yikes.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
The hot girls in my book are those who have naturally beatiful faces, and who use moderate make-up when they need to dress up.
Those chicks on your pic have never been hot chicks in my book, except maybe Alicia Silverstone... so...
The type of chicks that I consider hot are like for example Lucy Southworth, the current girlfriend of Larry Page, one of the two google billionaires.
Check here if you want to see what I mean by hot women/girls.
But I get what you mean, and I do agree with you...
Those chicks on your pic have never been hot chicks in my book, except maybe Alicia Silverstone... so...
The type of chicks that I consider hot are like for example Lucy Southworth, the current girlfriend of Larry Page, one of the two google billionaires.
Check here if you want to see what I mean by hot women/girls.
But I get what you mean, and I do agree with you...
Paradigm Artisan
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ShizamDaMan Said:
So, if you think about it. Women have more to lose if they are rejected then us men. They spend so much time each day picking out the right outfit, putting make up on and sh!t. And what do we do? We roll out of bed without a thought.
If she gets rejected: "Oh no, even with all my make up and time I spent on myself I still get regected."
If you get regected: "NEXT!" nuff said.
She's wasted time and effort. You wasted a couple seconds breathing. What's the big deal?
....................Amen....................
So, if you think about it. Women have more to lose if they are rejected then us men. They spend so much time each day picking out the right outfit, putting make up on and sh!t. And what do we do? We roll out of bed without a thought.
If she gets rejected: "Oh no, even with all my make up and time I spent on myself I still get regected."
If you get regected: "NEXT!" nuff said.
She's wasted time and effort. You wasted a couple seconds breathing. What's the big deal?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Mac_Laaarry
Don Juan
SEriously downhill after 25? Yeah white chicks lol.
to the post above me : now a days a guy spends atleast half the time a normal chick does on his looks everyday.... i remember being like that , using waay too much time on my looks , its was in my afc days , now i just get out of the bed take a shower and take the nearest clothes i find and go out and sarge.... unless its something important or formal , i dont spend more then max 3 mins on "fixing" myself....
but yeah the tabloids the movies , especially porn gives us a wrong image , i hate it when girls wear too much makeup, but i dont hate makeup itself i like it when they have a little , but let theyr natural beuty shine rather then have enough powder on to create masks for 5 clowns .... And youl know when someone is naturally pretty or not when you see them in real life , in the movies and tabloids they digitally alter soooo much thats its nearly imposible to tell......
but yeah the tabloids the movies , especially porn gives us a wrong image , i hate it when girls wear too much makeup, but i dont hate makeup itself i like it when they have a little , but let theyr natural beuty shine rather then have enough powder on to create masks for 5 clowns .... And youl know when someone is naturally pretty or not when you see them in real life , in the movies and tabloids they digitally alter soooo much thats its nearly imposible to tell......
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Still better than 99% of black chicks who are never hot, whether before or after 25...Mac_Laaarry said:
:crackup:Are you sure the pictures are real?
They should spend hours making up everyday.
Anyway, I still think all the makup is to make them unreconaisable in public.
I'm with Morphiex. A little make up, but just a little can show girls put effort on themselfs.
They should spend hours making up everyday.
Anyway, I still think all the makup is to make them unreconaisable in public.
I'm with Morphiex. A little make up, but just a little can show girls put effort on themselfs.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
wow thank god there is barely any girls aroud here wears little to no makeup. If those are real pics then I would even think about approaching them.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
ADifferentKindofDJ
Don Juan
lol, and I thought I had it bad.
What a new perspective!!
What a new perspective!!