"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Women Without Makeup Pictures: You'll never be Intimidated Again
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I know - sometimes I think that if it was socially exceptable to wear makeup and I did then my hangups would disappear.
But it's not just makeup - it's TV and magazine's - They're so much post processing now that they can make anyone look decent - Look at Oprah.
Porn/TV/Magazines/Movies all give us an unrealistic image. The only people who look like that naturally are 21 and under.
So those guys who are still that young, remember that. Don't put it off until later because girls go SERIOUSLY downhill after around 25.
But it's not just makeup - it's TV and magazine's - They're so much post processing now that they can make anyone look decent - Look at Oprah.
Porn/TV/Magazines/Movies all give us an unrealistic image. The only people who look like that naturally are 21 and under.
So those guys who are still that young, remember that. Don't put it off until later because girls go SERIOUSLY downhill after around 25.
ShizamDaMan
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Thank God for being a man, and not having to put on 90% of our look after getting out of bed. A lot of times I've rolled out of bed, thrown on a shirt, and went to class and could still flirt with the hot chicks in my bed.
Imagine some girl who was only hot with makeup talking to you 10 minutes after getting out of bed. Or the no-makeup picture of Pam Anderson. Yikes.
Imagine some girl who was only hot with makeup talking to you 10 minutes after getting out of bed. Or the no-makeup picture of Pam Anderson. Yikes.
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
The hot girls in my book are those who have naturally beatiful faces, and who use moderate make-up when they need to dress up.
Those chicks on your pic have never been hot chicks in my book, except maybe Alicia Silverstone... so...
The type of chicks that I consider hot are like for example Lucy Southworth, the current girlfriend of Larry Page, one of the two google billionaires.
Check here if you want to see what I mean by hot women/girls.
But I get what you mean, and I do agree with you...
Those chicks on your pic have never been hot chicks in my book, except maybe Alicia Silverstone... so...
The type of chicks that I consider hot are like for example Lucy Southworth, the current girlfriend of Larry Page, one of the two google billionaires.
Check here if you want to see what I mean by hot women/girls.
But I get what you mean, and I do agree with you...
Paradigm Artisan
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ShizamDaMan Said:
So, if you think about it. Women have more to lose if they are rejected then us men. They spend so much time each day picking out the right outfit, putting make up on and sh!t. And what do we do? We roll out of bed without a thought.
If she gets rejected: "Oh no, even with all my make up and time I spent on myself I still get regected."
If you get regected: "NEXT!" nuff said.
She's wasted time and effort. You wasted a couple seconds breathing. What's the big deal?
....................Amen....................
So, if you think about it. Women have more to lose if they are rejected then us men. They spend so much time each day picking out the right outfit, putting make up on and sh!t. And what do we do? We roll out of bed without a thought.
If she gets rejected: "Oh no, even with all my make up and time I spent on myself I still get regected."
If you get regected: "NEXT!" nuff said.
She's wasted time and effort. You wasted a couple seconds breathing. What's the big deal?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Mac_Laaarry
Don Juan
SEriously downhill after 25? Yeah white chicks lol.
to the post above me : now a days a guy spends atleast half the time a normal chick does on his looks everyday.... i remember being like that , using waay too much time on my looks , its was in my afc days , now i just get out of the bed take a shower and take the nearest clothes i find and go out and sarge.... unless its something important or formal , i dont spend more then max 3 mins on "fixing" myself....
but yeah the tabloids the movies , especially porn gives us a wrong image , i hate it when girls wear too much makeup, but i dont hate makeup itself i like it when they have a little , but let theyr natural beuty shine rather then have enough powder on to create masks for 5 clowns .... And youl know when someone is naturally pretty or not when you see them in real life , in the movies and tabloids they digitally alter soooo much thats its nearly imposible to tell......
but yeah the tabloids the movies , especially porn gives us a wrong image , i hate it when girls wear too much makeup, but i dont hate makeup itself i like it when they have a little , but let theyr natural beuty shine rather then have enough powder on to create masks for 5 clowns .... And youl know when someone is naturally pretty or not when you see them in real life , in the movies and tabloids they digitally alter soooo much thats its nearly imposible to tell......
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
Still better than 99% of black chicks who are never hot, whether before or after 25...Mac_Laaarry said:
:crackup:Are you sure the pictures are real?
They should spend hours making up everyday.
Anyway, I still think all the makup is to make them unreconaisable in public.
I'm with Morphiex. A little make up, but just a little can show girls put effort on themselfs.
They should spend hours making up everyday.
Anyway, I still think all the makup is to make them unreconaisable in public.
I'm with Morphiex. A little make up, but just a little can show girls put effort on themselfs.
Distant Light
Master Don Juan
wow thank god there is barely any girls aroud here wears little to no makeup. If those are real pics then I would even think about approaching them.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
ADifferentKindofDJ
Don Juan
lol, and I thought I had it bad.
What a new perspective!!
What a new perspective!!