"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Women with Wifey Skills

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penkitten said:
However, when I am sick, he's a master when it comes to pouring cereal, making sandwiches, ordering pizza , making hot dogs, warming up ravioli.
Yep! He sounds like a keeper!:up:

Diplomatic_Lies said:
Boy, that's like a Nazi stormtrooper who enjoys romantic poetry.
:crackup:


Diplomatic_Lies said:
By the way, something I've never noticed here - if you want to find a wife with "wifey" skills, you should also have "husbandy" skills. Basically you want a woman to do her duty, you also have to do yours.
INDEED! Guys! PLEASE! Learn how to fix things! How to install a phone jack, fix a car, how to reset a garbage disposal, how to unclog sinks and toilets, how to do minor repairs around the house. Trust me! One dark and rainy night...you will be someone's shining hero!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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penkitten said:
ok boys lets get back on the wifey skills subject before someone says this has become political and they close it.

If this discussion can get back on the social track then we can leave it open.

We understand that women have different roles in different countries....so let's get back to the roles of companion/mate/wife roles in the US as compared with other countries.

Hopefully we can discuss the social aspects of this topic without getting into too much of the politics of the different countries.
 

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Well I have said many times that I think that men and women are most happy togeather when they act true to their nature. A woman looking after children and making ahome the warm place it is. A man providing for and protecting the family.

There are many people who think that the only difference between a man and a woman is physical. They couldn't be more incorrect. There are also mental aspect as well. Women for example have minds that allow them to handle the multi-tasking role of raising many children. Men have the ability to focus on their jobs to provide and invent new technologies. That is the natural order of things in humanity. Some would even argue that men and women are different spirtually. For these people, our souls are still male and female and as such we have the spirtual traits associated to men and women respectivley.

Regardless of what we think, when we pick a woman we must be sure that they are not fighting their human nature. Women that fight the power at young age will be very imature for family life. She just won't have the skills required to be a good mother. I know women that hate children. Even the thought of having one inside them was disturbing to them. It was a form of opression.

A man should learn to qualify women in terms of their maturity. If they wan't to be a provider then next their ass for anything serious. For example, one girl told me that she had the exact same goals as I did. (to provide protect.. etc.) I was like, "ok... go and find a woman " Needless to say I moved on.

The bottom line is that most modern women are to imature for anything serious.
 

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I've listed three skills that I think are solid skills for a "Good Wife" to have. Please feel free to add your own thoughts to the list. ("Being a HB10" is NOT a skill! That is simply good genetics.:nono: )


:flowers: Wifey Skills should consist of:

1. She should be able to balance a checkbook, make sure all the household bills are paid, and that the house runs on a budget agreed upon by the two of you.

2. She should be able to cook....from scratch at least three meals. She should have at least ONE other meal that is considered "her specialty". (Due to the cold realities of life, Stouffers Microwave Tuna Casserole is okay upon occasion, but not as daily fare.)

2a. When setting the table, she should know where the silverware goes. You might not notice, but your Mom will, and so will your Boss if he comes for dinner!

3. She should be your staunchest defender. No one should be able to diss you with her in the room. In the words of my own very fiesty Mom: "I don't CARE if he's wrong! He's my husband, so there!"
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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