"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Women with Wifey Skills

00Kevin

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For me a woman must have a fair number of wifey skills. The problem is that most women today don't learn them or their mothers don't teach them.

I have a friend who is Greek and his wife is lazy. She doesn't cook and clean, and she dresses in black most of the time. When her mother comes to visit she gets in crap . This woman became Americanized and is now a disgrace to her family

Sadly this isn't the case with most Americanized hoes.
Their mothers are lazy and fat and they are pigs. They clean nothing, do nothing, and b1tch about men.

For example I went into one girls kitchen and I saw dishes all over every counter space and table. There must of been over a week old. It was the most discussing thing I ever saw. What was even more of a shock is that there were 3 women (her mother and her sister) living in that house and not one of them gave a crap. Needless to say I dumped that stupid hoe rather quickly.


Now that I'm dating a nice latino girl it is like night and day. She cleans, cooks, and is also educated. She even cleaned my house! I didn't even ask her. I was shocked. I mean would an americanized woman EVER do something as nice as that? NO ****ing way. This is the kind of girl that I would work hard for. There is a value added return on my investment with her.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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00Kevin said:
For me a woman must have a fair number of wifey skills. The problem is that most women today don't learn them or their mothers don't teach them.

I have a friend who is Greek and his wife is lazy. She doesn't cook and clean, and she dresses in black most of the time. When her mother comes to visit she gets in crap . This woman became Americanized and is now a disgrace to her family

Sadly this isn't the case with most Americanized hoes.
Their mothers are lazy and fat and they are pigs. They clean nothing, do nothing, and b1tch about men.

For example I went into one girls kitchen and I saw dishes all over every counter space and table. There must of been over a week old. It was the most discussing thing I ever saw. What was even more of a shock is that there were 3 women (her mother and her sister) living in that house and not one of them gave a crap. Needless to say I dumped that stupid hoe rather quickly.


Now that I'm dating a nice latino girl it is like night and day. She cleans, cooks, and is also educated. She even cleaned my house! I didn't even ask her. I was shocked. I mean would an americanized woman EVER do something as nice as that? NO ****ing way. This is the kind of girl that I would work hard for. There is a value added return on my investment with her.
*taking on the role of a "modern" americanized woman*

Wifey skills!? You mean...actually behave like a woman should?! No way! That is so demeaning to women. Learning the necessities of life such as cooking is like sending the women's rights movement back 30 years!. I am PROUD that I don't know how to cook. It is like a "modern" woman's right of passage to freedom. Oh, but I still expect men to take care of me financially, abide by the code of chivalry, protect me and wipe my @ss too. :rolleyes:

I had to get that out. :crackup:
 
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I was with an American Latina and we went camping - she wouldb't even cook me a hamburger because she said she didn't want her hands to get dirty!! Here is the kicker - she wanted me to marry her!! :rolleyes:

Stupid lazy unfeminine hor!!
 

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Last Man Standing said:
I was with an American Latina and we went camping - she wouldb't even cook me a hamburger because she said she didn't want her hands to get dirty!! Here is the kicker - she wanted me to marry her!! :rolleyes:

Stupid lazy unfeminine hor!!
A latina girl LAZY? wow... I never
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I cook but because i always cook at home my woman needs to cook at home... i HATE cooking at home.
 

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You poor darlings! I LOVE to cook! (And I can't stand a dirty kitchen)

My cousin's ex-wife is such a woman as you discribe. Her house is filthy, she has 4 cats, but never cleans the boxes, just dumps in more litter. She only cooks "out of a can", and usually just orders pizza and other take-out food. Her kitchen is a bio-hazard! Half full plates of old food, sink full of water & dirty dishes (Like they are supposed to clean them selves...)

And she's always complaining why she can never "find a man".
 

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you can't really say because of a girls race race or traditions; that they're not wifey material. In your case you feel wifey material is some who cooks and cleans. thats you.

its easy to find girls who cook and clean. some girls take an interest in being more of a housewife than others...

watch desperate housewives. you hardly find the hispanic chick cleaning.
 

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Not to sound like a feminist but if you want a woman as a partner in crime rather than some pretty trophy then you look for those qualities/and or address that you want someone to do some "work" with you. If you treat her like some dainty flower, guess what bro..She'll become that dainty flower than someone who cooks/cleans/etc with you. Don't bash American women, bash the men that make women into stupid hos in the first place.

Woman did not become princesses, until man created the imagery of the princess Back in the caveman days, women were hairy as hell, no makeup - they almost looked like men except they were curvier/had a vagina/and had tits. The caveman of course wanted to f*ck but because he didn't have the illusion of beauty to control him so he made her do farming and tending to the estate as he hunted and then came home to bang her.

Know yourself, Know what you want, Go for that want.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wow...watch Desperate Housewives...Eva Longoria does not clean? It is a TV show! You think that show would get all of it's ratings by showing Eva cleaning the house?
 

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Even is she cant cook right off the bat, thats fine. As long as she's willing to learn i'd still give her the chance. However, if she's all princess like and worried about her nails then hasta lavista.
 

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Elti Boi said:
you can't really say because of a girls race race or traditions; that they're not wifey material. In your case you feel wifey material is some who cooks and cleans. thats you.

its easy to find girls who cook and clean. some girls take an interest in being more of a housewife than others...

watch desperate housewives. you hardly find the hispanic chick cleaning.
You would have to be a total idiot to apply anything found on a TV show to your daily life. Desperate housewives is a show that has social deconstructionist motives and themes.
 

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WaterTiger said:
You poor darlings! I LOVE to cook! (And I can't stand a dirty kitchen)

My cousin's ex-wife is such a woman as you discribe. Her house is filthy, she has 4 cats, but never cleans the boxes, just dumps in more litter. She only cooks "out of a can", and usually just orders pizza and other take-out food. Her kitchen is a bio-hazard! Half full plates of old food, sink full of water & dirty dishes (Like they are supposed to clean them selves...)
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your cousins ex wife sounds like my sister in law, who is always saying she is tired of doing everything.
i guess everything = nothing around their house.


i do the cooking here, due to gio setting 3 toasters on fire in attempts to make toast, warm a beagle and pop tart. however, when i am sick, hes a master when it comes to pouring cereal, making sandwiches, ordering pizza , making hot dogs, warming up ravioli.
 

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ok boys lets get back on the wifey skills subject before someone says this has become political and they close it.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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penkitten said:
ok boys lets get back on the wifey skills subject before someone says this has become political and they close it.
Sounds fine to me.


By the way, something I've never noticed here - if you want to find a wife with "wifey" skills, you should also have "husbandy" skills. Basically you want a woman to do her duty, you also have to do yours. Have a good job, don't spend your nights drinking and clubbing, maintain a decent family image, etc.

If you're a fat unemployed slob who spends his nights drinking, don't expect to marry a quality wife. Maybe a cheap slvt who lives in a trailer and has 15 tattoos...
 

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Women don't do that anymore because equality in their minds means that everyone pays for their ****, and they don't do anything but sit around and watch Opera, getting fat.
 

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diplomatic_lies said:
Sounds fine to me.


By the way, something I've never noticed here - if you want to find a wife with "wifey" skills, you should also have "husbandy" skills. Basically you want a woman to do her duty, you also have to do yours. Have a good job, don't spend your nights drinking and clubbing, maintain a decent family image, etc.

If you're a fat unemployed slob who spends his nights drinking, don't expect to marry a quality wife. Maybe a cheap slvt who lives in a trailer and has 15 tattoos...
that is true.
chris rock once said, " 2 christians can be together forever, and 2 crack heads can be together forever, but a crackhead and a christian just aint gonna make it."
 

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I personally find women with nurturing tendencies and well-organized characteristics to be attractive. They're feminine traits.
 

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00Kevin said:
For me a woman must have a fair number of wifey skills. The problem is that most women today don't learn them or their mothers don't teach them.

I have a friend who is Greek and his wife is lazy. She doesn't cook and clean, and she dresses in black most of the time. When her mother comes to visit she gets in crap . This woman became Americanized and is now a disgrace to her family

Sadly this isn't the case with most Americanized hoes.
Their mothers are lazy and fat and they are pigs. They clean nothing, do nothing, and b1tch about men.

For example I went into one girls kitchen and I saw dishes all over every counter space and table. There must of been over a week old. It was the most discussing thing I ever saw. What was even more of a shock is that there were 3 women (her mother and her sister) living in that house and not one of them gave a crap. Needless to say I dumped that stupid hoe rather quickly.


Now that I'm dating a nice latino girl it is like night and day. She cleans, cooks, and is also educated. She even cleaned my house! I didn't even ask her. I was shocked. I mean would an americanized woman EVER do something as nice as that? NO ****ing way. This is the kind of girl that I would work hard for. There is a value added return on my investment with her.
Ethnic girls are super hard working, but they're hella gold diggers too.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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