Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Women with tattoos on the back of the shoulder

MDgood

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I want your input on my observation.

We all know that a tattoo on the lower back (the tramp stamp) means you're getting laid, fast.

But the few girls I've known with tattoos on the back of the shoulder have all been the type to fvck anything - real wild types. These girls could suck-start a Harley.

The one thing they've had in common was that they didn't want to seem like they were sluts. They wanted people to think they were good girls, professional women who weren't easy at all. But, of course, they were really easy.

So guys, think about it: Have you noticed the same thing about women with the tattoos on the back of the shoulder? Are they closet ho-bags?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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KnockoutJM

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I have noticed it actually.. its like the same thing but they dont want it to look like it even though they feel/act like sluts
 

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The ones to watch out for are the ones with star tattoos (anywhere). For some reason, they're usually trampy.
 

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I hate all tattoos on women. I can at least understand them on girls who are deep into into dark metal, goth or punk since it fits that lifestyle. But why on earth "normal" women want to get some "cutsie" little tattoo on their body is beyond me. It totally ruins the beauty of female skin. It also indicates to me that she's probably the impulsive type that doesn't think ahead, like thinking whether she's ging to like this tattoo in 5 years, yet alone 30 years, or what the hell that tramp stamp is going to look like when she's 60. The stupider the tattoo, the more dumb, myopic and impulsive the girl. Say like a girl getting a simpsons tattoo, or a tattoo of her favorite band or something. And of course no girl is dumber than one that has a tattoo of her ex-boyfriend's name. You know that she's one step above a talking monkey at that point, and even then not by much.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I can't stand tattoos on women either. If it's an unattractive woman, I don't give a sh*t. But a tattoo on an attractive girl is a like a bumper sticker on a Ferrari. It's tacky, unclassy, and just downright ugly. If it's near the end of a limb like on the wrist or ankle then it's really no big deal. But tats on girls' bodies just suck, and tats on the back are the worst.
 

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The number of Tats are inversely proportional to promiscuity. I won't even consider dating a girl unless she has 3 visible Tats at all times. Call me picky, but i do have standards.
 

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Some chicks get their makeup tattooed on but that's different IMO.
 

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Serialized3 said:
The ones to watch out for are the ones with star tattoos (anywhere). For some reason, they're usually trampy.

because you aren't going to the after party.. you ARE the after party
 

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Agree. It is not a 100% thing, but a tattoo usual means she is freaky. There are plenty of non-tattooed girls who are just as big of freaks though. They choose not to reveal it to us with a marking though lol!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Tatoos don't mean $hit nowdays.
Almost every girl I've dated or hung out with (inlcuding my current LTR) in the last 2 years has had atleast a back tat.

They are not anymore indicative of slutyness than anything else.
 

MDgood

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Teflon_Mcgee said:
Tatoos don't mean $hit nowdays.
Almost every girl I've dated or hung out with (inlcuding my current LTR) in the last 2 years has had atleast a back tat.

They are not anymore indicative of slutyness than anything else.
And how many of those non-slutty girls did you nail within the first 5 dates?

What's that you say? All of them?!?
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Serialized3 said:
The ones to watch out for are the ones with star tattoos (anywhere). For some reason, they're usually trampy.
Wow, I actually did meet some girls with star tattoos and they were hors! :crackup: Interesting observation...
 

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I'm batting 100% in the Tattoo/sex on first date department as well sadly enough
 

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Tattooed makeup i would put below a meaningful tattoo.. Think about it.. forever the same make up, when her skin changes the tattoo wil move too and she will look gross, and it only shows she is too lazy to make herself fresh every day..

Think of a girl who gets a tattoo below the visible waistline, or peaking out.. then think, when you get a tattoo or something big like that dont you want to show it off? I highly doubt she spent 5k to get a little flower for 1 man for the rest of her life.. she wants it for the world
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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backbreaker

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Tat's are like hurricanes.. you have different Catogories:

Catogory 1: Dad and Mom's name, Kids name, etc
Catogory 2: A meanful Phrase
Catorogy 3: a love one's name, a BF's name, a person's name that is not related
Catogory 4: Stars, eagles, chinese letters, hearts, "daddy's little princess" tattoos, Tattoos of Baby Boop
Catogory 5: Anything more extreme than Catogory 4

"man.. we have have a Catogory 5 Tatoo"

"uh oh Jim.. this looks like a super*****"
 

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It means she's not a virgin.

Didn't everyone know that? :rolleyes:
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Wow, I actually did meet some girls with star tattoos and they were hors! :crackup: Interesting observation...
I ****ed a girl once that had 4 start tattoos on her back. You might be on to something.
 

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lol, she' might have 4 star tattoos, but she's a 5 star hor!!!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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