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And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

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Women with tattoos on the back of the shoulder

MDgood

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I want your input on my observation.

We all know that a tattoo on the lower back (the tramp stamp) means you're getting laid, fast.

But the few girls I've known with tattoos on the back of the shoulder have all been the type to fvck anything - real wild types. These girls could suck-start a Harley.

The one thing they've had in common was that they didn't want to seem like they were sluts. They wanted people to think they were good girls, professional women who weren't easy at all. But, of course, they were really easy.

So guys, think about it: Have you noticed the same thing about women with the tattoos on the back of the shoulder? Are they closet ho-bags?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I have noticed it actually.. its like the same thing but they dont want it to look like it even though they feel/act like sluts
 

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The ones to watch out for are the ones with star tattoos (anywhere). For some reason, they're usually trampy.
 

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I hate all tattoos on women. I can at least understand them on girls who are deep into into dark metal, goth or punk since it fits that lifestyle. But why on earth "normal" women want to get some "cutsie" little tattoo on their body is beyond me. It totally ruins the beauty of female skin. It also indicates to me that she's probably the impulsive type that doesn't think ahead, like thinking whether she's ging to like this tattoo in 5 years, yet alone 30 years, or what the hell that tramp stamp is going to look like when she's 60. The stupider the tattoo, the more dumb, myopic and impulsive the girl. Say like a girl getting a simpsons tattoo, or a tattoo of her favorite band or something. And of course no girl is dumber than one that has a tattoo of her ex-boyfriend's name. You know that she's one step above a talking monkey at that point, and even then not by much.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I can't stand tattoos on women either. If it's an unattractive woman, I don't give a sh*t. But a tattoo on an attractive girl is a like a bumper sticker on a Ferrari. It's tacky, unclassy, and just downright ugly. If it's near the end of a limb like on the wrist or ankle then it's really no big deal. But tats on girls' bodies just suck, and tats on the back are the worst.
 

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The number of Tats are inversely proportional to promiscuity. I won't even consider dating a girl unless she has 3 visible Tats at all times. Call me picky, but i do have standards.
 

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Some chicks get their makeup tattooed on but that's different IMO.
 

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Serialized3 said:
The ones to watch out for are the ones with star tattoos (anywhere). For some reason, they're usually trampy.

because you aren't going to the after party.. you ARE the after party
 

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Agree. It is not a 100% thing, but a tattoo usual means she is freaky. There are plenty of non-tattooed girls who are just as big of freaks though. They choose not to reveal it to us with a marking though lol!
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Teflon_Mcgee

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Tatoos don't mean $hit nowdays.
Almost every girl I've dated or hung out with (inlcuding my current LTR) in the last 2 years has had atleast a back tat.

They are not anymore indicative of slutyness than anything else.
 

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Teflon_Mcgee said:
Tatoos don't mean $hit nowdays.
Almost every girl I've dated or hung out with (inlcuding my current LTR) in the last 2 years has had atleast a back tat.

They are not anymore indicative of slutyness than anything else.
And how many of those non-slutty girls did you nail within the first 5 dates?

What's that you say? All of them?!?
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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Serialized3 said:
The ones to watch out for are the ones with star tattoos (anywhere). For some reason, they're usually trampy.
Wow, I actually did meet some girls with star tattoos and they were hors! :crackup: Interesting observation...
 

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I'm batting 100% in the Tattoo/sex on first date department as well sadly enough
 

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Tattooed makeup i would put below a meaningful tattoo.. Think about it.. forever the same make up, when her skin changes the tattoo wil move too and she will look gross, and it only shows she is too lazy to make herself fresh every day..

Think of a girl who gets a tattoo below the visible waistline, or peaking out.. then think, when you get a tattoo or something big like that dont you want to show it off? I highly doubt she spent 5k to get a little flower for 1 man for the rest of her life.. she wants it for the world
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Tat's are like hurricanes.. you have different Catogories:

Catogory 1: Dad and Mom's name, Kids name, etc
Catogory 2: A meanful Phrase
Catorogy 3: a love one's name, a BF's name, a person's name that is not related
Catogory 4: Stars, eagles, chinese letters, hearts, "daddy's little princess" tattoos, Tattoos of Baby Boop
Catogory 5: Anything more extreme than Catogory 4

"man.. we have have a Catogory 5 Tatoo"

"uh oh Jim.. this looks like a super*****"
 

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It means she's not a virgin.

Didn't everyone know that? :rolleyes:
 

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I.A.F.Y.B. said:
Wow, I actually did meet some girls with star tattoos and they were hors! :crackup: Interesting observation...
I ****ed a girl once that had 4 start tattoos on her back. You might be on to something.
 

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lol, she' might have 4 star tattoos, but she's a 5 star hor!!!
 

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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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