women with passions/obsessions maybe

[pyros]

So, have you ever met a woman that had a hobby or something that looked like an obsession?

For example, Im seing a 24 yo chick that is really into salsa. I am also a salsa dancer but this girl seems obessed with it. For example, I may go to dance once or twice a week, and I may also go to my weekly salsa class, but this girl...she's been dancing for 5 years now. She goes out to dance two or three times per week, and she doesnt just go there for an hour or two like I do, she goes and she dances for 4-5 hours, each time.
Besides, she helps a friend of hers who is a salsa teacher because she is his dancing partner, so she also goes to 'teach' salsa a few times a week. I think she spends around 15 hours each week dancing salsa.
She also likes to go to the gym a lot, to all the activities like zumba, aerobic, spining...and she goes almost everyday for one or two hours.

She has huge energy, a very high libido, and she sleeps little, around 6-7 hours a day. Besides, she is finishing a master degree now. She reminds me of a terminatrix really...it seems she never runs out of energy.

Normally I am suspicious about a person who is way too keen on something, I mean when it reaches the obsession limit...ppl with obsessions are unstable in my opinion.

Opinions?

 

[Willard]

Sounds like you found yourself a great girl, she must have a great body. Dancing, exercising and studying are her main focus, not out drinking and partying with her friends.

 

[pyros]

but she just dances way too much, as I wrote, it's like an obsession. She thinks about salsa all the time, and she actually 'needs' it to feel fine.
Last Friday we went to dance with some friends at 24:00h. I left at 03:00h, she left at 05:00h. On Saturday we had secs several times and she wanted more. At night we went to dance salsa for two hours, and today she went with her friends to dance more and she also taught salsa for two hours in the evening.

I think she is hyperactive, and this is why she needs to go to dance so much, go to aerobic, bodycombat, spining..., and have so much secs.
She has a normal body, because it seems half a year ago she was kind of chubby. Now she is a bit too thin. Sometimes I think that she dances so much, and goes to the gym so much because she doesn't want to be chubby anymore.

It may sound cool, but she just cant chill and do nothing...

 

[Willard]

There are worse problems to have with a girl, you must not like her that much if that bothers you. You can treat her like a FWB and not take her seriously. What do you care about what she does with her time when she's not with you? I don't care what girls I date are doing when they aren't with me, unless I thought they might be banging other dude's.

Do you enjoy salsa? Can you go with her? If you get great at Salsa dancing, you can get lots of girls when you go out to clubs and dance. Letting a girls harmless social activities bother you seems like a waste of energy to me.

 

[thunder_god]

Her doing salsa dancing all the time should be the least of your worries. I'd be more worried if she was always out hanging with dudes or going out clubbing or partying.

 

[El Payaso]

I think she's a great girl. Sounds a lot better than some deadbeat girls I've seen who aren't in school, work a dead end job and their hobby is gossiping and causing drama.