"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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drellum

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Is there any point pursuing these women?

I have dated this girl 3 times.

She has her own business and it is starting to grow. However, there seems to be this mental barrier formed.

She is quite fit, good body etc and she definitely shows interest, texting and mailing often.

Only problem is that she is completely immersed in her business, nothing else seems to matter. Should I bin it and move on or persevere?

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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Scaramouche

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Dear Drellum,
I sometimes despair of this site as being one for Don Juans,if you are chasing marriage or some deep and meaningful relationship,why are you posting here?
 
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