"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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drellum

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Is there any point pursuing these women?

I have dated this girl 3 times.

She has her own business and it is starting to grow. However, there seems to be this mental barrier formed.

She is quite fit, good body etc and she definitely shows interest, texting and mailing often.

Only problem is that she is completely immersed in her business, nothing else seems to matter. Should I bin it and move on or persevere?

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Scaramouche

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Dear Drellum,
I sometimes despair of this site as being one for Don Juans,if you are chasing marriage or some deep and meaningful relationship,why are you posting here?
 
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