She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Can't see the pic man.BlackJackal said:I like this booty. She got nice legs too.
http://www.bigbootyonline.com/hostedgalleries/28444r0298.jpg
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Yeah, I'll admit, I'm a black guy and I do like thickness... but ONLY chest and glutes. If you she's got a gut, I'll still hit, of course, but a more athletically toned body with big proportioned hips instead will always turn me on more.Cash said:Not all black guys like thinkness. Just look at seal, got himself a VS model.
Probably most do though, i agree.
Alright, I have to ask you a question. You say that you only like a thick chest and glutes but if she has a gut you'd still hit it. My question is why would you tap it if you only like a thick chest and ass?Aprenti$playa&pimp said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
It's as big and wide as the subject itself...penkitten said:
You cant see it? Oh well there was only one pic I liked on there when I went searching for booty pics. LOl...and no it's not a porn site I've seen before.Le Parisien said:Can't see the pic man.
Is it your favorite porn site?
Ok, I checked the site. I find almost all the women on that site are grossly fat. So fat that they have orange skin. But hey, it's just me.
Don't get me wrong, I mean, I prefer think chest (big breasts) and some meaty hams, with carved abs. I'm just saying, even if she had a gut, as long as it wasn't 3 feet further than here bresats (exaggeration), I'd still hit. I probably wouldn't date exclusively to them though, just to freak... I imagine I love thickness for when I hit from the back so I can get some smacks in and a good grip on whatever I grab when I drive.Francisco d'Anconia said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
*sigh* It's only because you're unfamiliar with perfection.penkitten said:
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Yeah baby, this is what I'd call the ultimate hotness!!!DJDamage said:
:yes: You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.