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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Women With Big Butts

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^ You only like what you can handle and most of the listed group couldn't handle it. lol

You wouldn't wear size ten shoes if you can only fill an eight, now would you?

Infact, the only thing bringing this thread through the shít is the "how could you like fat asses" group.

Why are you still around? lol
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Just for illustration purpose, this is the kind of girl that's considered slightly overweight by most people except the black guys I know.

Now I'm waiting for your insults and name calling...:D
 

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I too would call her 'slightly overweight', and i'm black.

This is tiresome sh1t eh?
 

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Le Parisien said:
Just for illustration purpose, this is the kind of girl that's considered slightly overweight by most people except the black guys I know.

Now I'm waiting for your insults and name calling...:D
Dude - you can't see her ass.

We need a picture with the ass in it.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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cats who dont like big asses - are just afraid cause they feel they wont measure up. u need a big d*cked dude to take of a big ass.
 

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Bigworm said:
cats who dont like big asses - are just afraid cause they feel they wont measure up. u need a big d*cked dude to take of a big ass.
Exactly. A friend of mine explained it to me the same way.
 

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Dude - you can't see her ass.

We need a picture with the ass in it.
Dude, can't you see it in her arms and her pudgy little sausage link fingers?
 

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rakishness said:
I said it before and I will say it again you don't want to hit this....http://www.youtube.com/watch?search=&mode=related&v=qkYl0kXVYkY
or......http://www.candidtightvideos.com/a029a.JPG......you are GAY. HAHAHAHAHAHAH. Ofcourse i'm kidding about the gay part.....but there must be something wrong with you. LOL.
The chick in the video had a bit of a ponch on the other side of her big ass. When their butts are that big there's usually other fat deposits somewhere. You could see it in her quads too. At that size you'd think she would have muscles but there wasn't any definition, it just kinda hung there.
 

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If you are every walking past a girl who is slender but has thick thighs and wide hips...turn your HEAD AROUND.... Because you know she has a FATTY. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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rakishness said:
Exactly. A friend of mine explained it to me the same way.
Let me guess, you and your friend are both black...:yawn:

Bigworm said:
cats who dont like big asses - are just afraid cause they feel they wont measure up. u need a big d*cked dude to take of a big ass..
The same people who also claim to have the biggest d*cks in the world...:rolleyes:

As I said, people have different preferences, nothing wrong about that. But why keep looking for unnecessary justifications and try to make yourself look good?:confused:

Guess I'm only able to handle girls "who look like 13y olds"...:cry: :whistle: :D :crackup:
 

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rakishness said:
I said it before and I will say it again you don't want to hit this....http://www.youtube.com/watch?search=&mode=related&v=qkYl0kXVYkY
or......http://www.candidtightvideos.com/a029a.JPG......you are GAY. HAHAHAHAHAHAH. Ofcourse i'm kidding about the gay part.....but there must be something wrong with you. LOL.
- In the video, the girls on the left has a nice body, the one on the right clearly has some pounds to lose, just look at her tummy.

- The girl in the pic IS hot!:up:

Oh, just another video linked by yours, tell me if you find this hot... I guess you already know my take on the question.
 

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Interesting

All of the asses linked to by black guys seem a little too fat to me.

I'm German/American.

I like 'em athletic and toned, but not skinny.

Makes you wonder how much of the apparent preference is just social conditioning (the size of the asses on the women you wanted to bang when you were growing up).
 

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Le Parisien said:
- In the video, the girls on the left has a nice body, the one on the right clearly has some pounds to lose, just look at her tummy.

- The girl in the pic IS hot!:up:

Oh, just another video linked by yours, tell me if you find this hot... I guess you already know my take on the question.
Her Culo is aight. She is wearing heels though. That alters things, as we all know.
 

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Le Parisien said:
- In the video, the girls on the left has a nice body, the one on the right clearly has some pounds to lose, just look at her tummy.

- The girl in the pic IS hot!:up:
Agree 100%
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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rakishness said:
Her Culo is aight. She is wearing heels though. That alters things, as we all know.
See, this is the difference I was talking about.:yes:

Heels or not, I'm 100% sure that they don't turn me on at all. Short and very thick legs, fat thighs, visible tummy. Basically they are stocky. That's only my humble personal opinion of course...
 

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dayum this is a popular thread. it's just funny that some people think big but women are stuckup because the guys want them. i don't care about butts, unless it's like huge or something. as long as it's not oversize, i don't care what it looks like, i'm a boob lover. so some girl that gives attitude because she has a big butt wouldn't go too far with me...
 

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Le Parisien said:
See, this is the difference I was talking about.:yes:

Heels or not, I'm 100% sure that they don't turn me on at all. Short and very thick legs, fat thighs, visible tummy. Basically they are stocky. That's only my humble personal opinion of course...
My feelings are exactly opposite to this. I hate pancake butts(LOL!!!!). Women must have curves. If a girl has a pancake butt....she has to make up for it in other areas. Really....this is very interesting. So a round thick curvy butt on a girl does nothing for u?
 

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It's good for a women to have some 'meat' on her sometimes.

Meat meaning Steak, not Pork Chops.
 

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rakishness said:
My feelings are exactly opposite to this. I hate pancake butts(LOL!!!!). Women must have curves. If a girl has a pancake butt....she has to make up for it in other areas. Really....this is very interesting. So a round thick curvy butt on a girl does nothing for u?
Actually I never said I like flat azz.

A flat azz would be a shame, the same way too many freckles on a hot red head would be a shame.

I do appreciate a round thick curvy butt , I really do. But it's only after that she has
- A nice face
- Thin waist
- Thin and long legs
- Proportionate hips
- Reasonable breast size
etc...
Then it comes into play.

And a a round thick curvy butt will definitely NOT make up for any lack in the things above. Especially if she' fat, nothing in the world can make up for that.

Just for the record, my "ideal" women are women who look like these. Not actually these, but women who have this kind of body type.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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