Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
That's what most of us are getting at. A butt that is slightly disproportionate of the body. Something you can grip, Yes?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Well since we're giving visual examples migth as well throw in this vid.Le Parisien said:Thanks man!!!:flowers:
Great song, great clip! Old school is the way to go!
I find the girl in the openning really sexy, you know the black girl in the yellow dress. We don't get to see her face, but her body is hot. Big butt, but not overly big, slim waist, and lean thighs. Looks like her legs are long too. So yummy...
Actually it's also because girls who do have big butt are most likely also "fat", by that I mean they "at least" have waist that's not very different from the hips and they have fat thighs.
Vida Guerra is one of those rare specimens who have a very curvaceous butt but also a very thin and defined waistline. The only complaint that I'd have is that she's too short/her legs are too short.
Just for the record, physically, my ideal type of women are the Victoria's Secret models. Beautiful, tall and leggy, thin but also curvaceous at the right places.
Basically, big butt is attractive only if the girl also has thin waist and lean thighs and long legs... Of course, I'm only speaking for myself...
Now the girl in the second vid, she got what I call the bubble booty. Where her ass cheeks look like soft bubbles. The bubble booty's good.DarkLight said:
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Nooice:rockon:rakishness said:
WOW! Good taste Rollo, now I have to top that later damn.:crackup:Rollo Tomassi said:
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
I've never been a big butt kind of fan. But that's just me.Frank2500 said:
Exaaaaaactly. Now thats the type of A$$'s I'm talking about. Iv'e never been much attracted to J. Lo's A$$ as much as I am to her face, She goergeous. But chicks like JLo and Vida Gurreras with the fat azzes are one day gonna have fat stomachs, arms and neck rolls too. lolRollo Tomassi said:
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Thats what i like to see. Ass gotta jiggle when she wiggle.rakishness said:
You're right on this one, good find.surrender83 said:
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.