Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
That's what most of us are getting at. A butt that is slightly disproportionate of the body. Something you can grip, Yes?
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Well since we're giving visual examples migth as well throw in this vid.Le Parisien said:Thanks man!!!:flowers:
Great song, great clip! Old school is the way to go!
I find the girl in the openning really sexy, you know the black girl in the yellow dress. We don't get to see her face, but her body is hot. Big butt, but not overly big, slim waist, and lean thighs. Looks like her legs are long too. So yummy...
Actually it's also because girls who do have big butt are most likely also "fat", by that I mean they "at least" have waist that's not very different from the hips and they have fat thighs.
Vida Guerra is one of those rare specimens who have a very curvaceous butt but also a very thin and defined waistline. The only complaint that I'd have is that she's too short/her legs are too short.
Just for the record, physically, my ideal type of women are the Victoria's Secret models. Beautiful, tall and leggy, thin but also curvaceous at the right places.
Basically, big butt is attractive only if the girl also has thin waist and lean thighs and long legs... Of course, I'm only speaking for myself...
Now the girl in the second vid, she got what I call the bubble booty. Where her ass cheeks look like soft bubbles. The bubble booty's good.DarkLight said:
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Nooice:rockon:rakishness said:
WOW! Good taste Rollo, now I have to top that later damn.:crackup:Rollo Tomassi said:
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
I've never been a big butt kind of fan. But that's just me.Frank2500 said:
Exaaaaaactly. Now thats the type of A$$'s I'm talking about. Iv'e never been much attracted to J. Lo's A$$ as much as I am to her face, She goergeous. But chicks like JLo and Vida Gurreras with the fat azzes are one day gonna have fat stomachs, arms and neck rolls too. lolRollo Tomassi said:
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Thats what i like to see. Ass gotta jiggle when she wiggle.rakishness said:
You're right on this one, good find.surrender83 said:
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.