AverageHero
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What are your opinions on pretty women who have loads of facebook friends? Do they just happen to have this amount of friends? Or external validation or something?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Women with 1000+ facebook friends?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
They are no different than an actress giving free tickets to the theatre where she plays, her 1000+ friends are not people but simply an audience.
The bigger the audience the more the diva get validated and feel like a celebrity.
Keep in mind that facebook for the big part is not about keep in touch or see what friends are doing, for most people facebook is more like a private tv channel to broadcast and sell themselves through a created fake life made of accurately chosen pictures and posts.
The bigger the audience the more the diva get validated and feel like a celebrity.
Keep in mind that facebook for the big part is not about keep in touch or see what friends are doing, for most people facebook is more like a private tv channel to broadcast and sell themselves through a created fake life made of accurately chosen pictures and posts.
AverageHero
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I am interested in this girl, but I'm reading the warning signs and this is definitely one of them. Probably has low self esteem? Or would she be a narcissist?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Johnnyventana
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I know 2 chicks with that many friends. Both blonde, both good looking. Both crazy! One is histrionic, she even describes her own symptoms to a T regarding her personality. Sometimes we deliberately pay attention to her cube neighbor at work just to drive her crazy. She needs all the attention. The other blonde is borderline. She's all sugary sweet on facebook, but a whiney beeatch in real life. Both use facebook to craft their false images. So having 1000 viewers works for them. It's all fake of course.
Women crave attention by nature. Facebook is a platform to give them the attention fix that they need.
In a way facebook is like a drug supplier to women. The most popular drug for women is attention and facebook makes it easy for women to access a steady supply of it.
In a way facebook is like a drug supplier to women. The most popular drug for women is attention and facebook makes it easy for women to access a steady supply of it.