Women willfully avoid/ignore DJ men

[jhonny9546]

Attractive DJ men tend to be ignored and avoided by women in specific context, lets say in familiar social settings.

There are some single men who are very attractive, both physically and in the way they behave, or by the credentials they have, like social proof, validation, halo, etc.

We're talking about contexts where 80% of the women are already in a relationship, married, or married with children.
So imagine 30s and up.

They tend to be avoided, or women try to stay away from them while observing them from a distance, or women leave them small signs of plausible deniability (like when I saw with my own eyes this busy woman compliment this handsome single guy "nice shoes" while sitting next to her husband.
The way she said it made her intentions clear).

That said, what has been your experience when it comes to attractive, high-quality men whom women consider handsome and would pursue, but in certain contexts, even if attracted, women go to great lengths to avoid/hide their interest, to the point of completely ignoring their presence, while observing from afar?

And so, if any of you had the opportunity to see women's behavior change, and the treatment they received, simply based on how the social setting changed (for example, going from a family or friends party to a party on the beach, same woman, different situation)

It's said that whatever the situation and setting, there's always an opportunity for a true DJ, but I believe that on the other hand, there must also be an openness due to the scene.

 

[OngBak]

I still have that experience, and its true. If someone denies that, I know certainly that Person is not an attractive high value Guy at all.

 

[BaronOfHair]

@jhonny9546 "We're talking about contexts where 80% of the women are already in a relationship, married, or married with children.
So imagine 30s and up"

YMMV... Lots of married women with kids flirt with not only me, but many fellas in my immediate orbit. Same way lots of married men with kids still flirt with women who ain't their wives, especially at the bar or when out of town alone

We're all human beings who crave variety

 

[Gamisch]

Because some woman might ( I said MIGHT) see a man and know right away that he will be " trouble".

Especially when your aura / energy is "assertive ". Some women can't afford that man to make her blush or feel any kinda way.

A non threatening man ( think overweight social awkward neck beard) might have easier access to her, and we as men can find that annoying to see a man with a seemingly lower smv having easier access.

Thats why you might wanna mirror a woman's energy sometimes. If she ignores you igoner her back

 

[Redwood]

Because some woman might ( I said MIGHT) see a man and know right away that he will be " trouble".

Especially when your aura / energy is "assertive ". Some women can't afford that man to make her blush or feel any kinda way.

A non threatening man ( think overweight social awkward neck beard) might have easier access to her, and we as men can find that annoying to see a man with a seemingly lower smv having easier access.

Thats why you might wanna mirror a woman's energy sometimes. If she ignores you igoner her back

Good short term wise, kinda terrible long term wise. It just keeps the cycle going.