"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Women will do anything in order to fill their voids

jhonny9546

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How many women will do anything to have a baby?

It seems as if they come to a point in their life, or in their relationship with their BF, they feel stuck and this selfish need to want a child, or another child if they have one, is the only thing they can do, rather than working on themselves and understanding their emptiness.

And when she is pregnant or the baby is born, she is over the moon and will be fine for a few years...
Then, after 3 or 4 years, the imbalances will begin, again, and if she doesn't have a new baby, she will ask for something else...
I think it's even more difficult for women who have already become mothers once.
They feel such a strong emotion, and that whole period of pregnancy, that the only thing they can do to live in peace is to go through all those stages again.

It's as if for some an emotional imprinting is created, and they want a new baby every 2 or 3 years.
They want to feel those emotions again, and it really doesn't matter what their current BF or HB wants.
They will satisfy this need with another man if needed.

And you, her partner during that time, will think you made the right moves, or that your s3x was fantastic, and that she asked you to f0cc her mouth, tie her up, or do certain things, because she desired you.
In reality, she wanted something that didn't exist. It was not about "you", but always about "her".
Women desire things that don't exist, and it will only be your turn when she wants a certain thing.
And there'll be results (like marriages, kids, etc..).

Women will be truly driven crazy when they have to satisfy some need because they feel "stuck" in their lives, and rather than playing inner game, they will look for more things to fill that void.


Look like that there's a certain moment women desire, want something, and you as a man must decide wheter this will add or remove from your current relationship


ps: all of this It reminds me of Noface from Miyazaki's Spirited Away.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Going through this situation right now. I have to keep up the reminder that I don't want any despite whatever new angle they'll try.
 

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It's called The human need to pro-create, just like every other animal species on the planet has. It's a biological urge to keep the species going.

Stop trying to turn every simple thing into some calculus equation.
 

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And regardless of whatever they feel strongly about, as a man you get to decide if you want to comply or move on. It's really a beautiful thing.

Never hold yourself prisoner to her wishes you aren't on board with.
 

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It was not about "you", but always about "her"
As long as women are part of the human race, their behavior will be driven by heavily selfish motives. I remain baffled as to why we've spent the past decade clutching our pearls over such a fact/pretending that this HASN'T been self-evident all along
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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How many women will do anything to have a baby?

It seems as if they come to a point in their life, or in their relationship with their BF, they feel stuck and this selfish need to want a child, or another child if they have one, is the only thing they can do, rather than working on themselves and understanding their emptiness.

And when she is pregnant or the baby is born, she is over the moon and will be fine for a few years...
Then, after 3 or 4 years, the imbalances will begin, again, and if she doesn't have a new baby, she will ask for something else...
I think it's even more difficult for women who have already become mothers once.
They feel such a strong emotion, and that whole period of pregnancy, that the only thing they can do to live in peace is to go through all those stages again.

It's as if for some an emotional imprinting is created, and they want a new baby every 2 or 3 years.
They want to feel those emotions again, and it really doesn't matter what their current BF or HB wants.
They will satisfy this need with another man if needed.

And you, her partner during that time, will think you made the right moves, or that your s3x was fantastic, and that she asked you to f0cc her mouth, tie her up, or do certain things, because she desired you.
In reality, she wanted something that didn't exist. It was not about "you", but always about "her".
Women desire things that don't exist, and it will only be your turn when she wants a certain thing.
And there'll be results (like marriages, kids, etc..).

Women will be truly driven crazy when they have to satisfy some need because they feel "stuck" in their lives, and rather than playing inner game, they will look for more things to fill that void.


Look like that there's a certain moment women desire, want something, and you as a man must decide wheter this will add or remove from your current relationship


ps: all of this It reminds me of Noface from Miyazaki's Spirited Away.
Well, the decent-looking ones I have come across don't seem to want a short sperm donor. :mad::mad:
 

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And regardless of whatever they feel strongly about, as a man you get to decide if you want to comply or move on. It's really a beautiful thing.

Never hold yourself prisoner to her wishes you aren't on board with.
Yes, I have the minimum requirements that first, the chick is going to be inseminated the natural way (i.e., some chicks demand that their donor give a sample :mad::mad:), and that she has to meet a certain level of attractiveness to make me interested. Oh, and that she is someone that I would be proud of having inseminated.
 

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It's called The human need to pro-create, just like every other animal species on the planet has. It's a biological urge to keep the species going.

Stop trying to turn every simple thing into some calculus equation.
It's a self-fulfilling meme - the women's genes that make it to the next generation are those that have figured out how to get a man to inseminate her (and really, talk about one of the easiest things in the world to do ...).
 

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Well, the decent-looking ones I have come across don't seem to want a short sperm donor. :mad::mad:
Approaching with the line "It's over for (Insert your choice of Cels)" is likely diminishing your appeal also, hoss, faster than Ellen Page's sex change torpedoed her career
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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