"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Women Who Work in Porn Shops

jglide123

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I went to a porn shop the other day and had a cool conversation with an attractive woman who worked there. While she was cool, I can't help but think that women like that consider all men who enter a porn shop to be perverts (kinda like how strippers usually hate men, or at least their customers)....

Anyone have any similar experiences?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Down Low

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I helped out a buddy in 1980 by doing a shift for him in a pron shop. It also had a little video arcade where male prostitutes did their business.

Every f0cker who walked in the door was a hard core perv.

I did get a sneaky thrill pushing all six buttons at the same time to show a late-20s woman all the various motions of electric d1cks in action. She gasped. It was great.
 

Vice

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I went into one to pick up a thing of lube, had the lady at the counter hit on me. Then again, I'm sure that she could tell I wasn't a typical customer.
 

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Vice said:
I went into one to pick up a thing of lube, had the lady at the counter hit on me. Then again, I'm sure that she could tell I wasn't a typical customer.
You're a customer. You're the same as every other customer.
 

dbx

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Porn shop? Haven't you heard of the internet? :)

Seriously though... how are they still in business? Never seen one here in the UK.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Vice

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dbx said:
Porn shop? Haven't you heard of the internet? :)

Seriously though... how are they still in business? Never seen one here in the UK.
I don't go to them often except for novelty and fun with my girlfriend, but they sell other fun things besides movies/magazines.

It's instant gratification vs. waiting for stuff to come in the mail.
 
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