That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This is very trueRonaldo7 said:Every woman has the slut in them. Some show it more than others.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
So your sister is a slvt?SpazzAttackk said:My sister wears makeup because she hates her freckles. I think its more of an insecurity thing. You can normally tell which caked up hoes are either insecure or slvtty
Ronaldo7 said:So your sister is a slvt?
Since you said your sister wears makeup and the inquiry about this thread asks if they wear makeup they may be sluttier, your sister fits the sluttier category.SpazzAttackk said:Every woman has the slut in them. Some show it more than others. -Mr Slinky
Just like some (only some not all) males have an undying erection for soccer players. Like.. lets say, Ronaldo?
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Ronaldo7 said:Since you said your sister wears makeup and the inquiry about this thread asks if they wear makeup they may be sluttier, your sister fits the sluttier category.
Reason #85 of why you are singlerearea said:I find 99% of men that complain women wear makeup also tell makeup-less woman they should wear more makeup to look more attractive. But alas, men have never been logical. Basically, the media has ****ed up their brains to the point where they have become so used to see made up women that they expect women to roll out of bed looking hot. If you want to ***** about women wearing makeup, then realize most women will look too plain for you without it. You cant have it both ways.
Personally I hate makeup and wish as woman it didnt exist. With no makeup, beauty wise the playing field would be more leveled. I could spend more time using it more to make myself look hotter but I rather attract a guy who is attracted to natural beauty. I see no point in covering my face with a mask and then having a guy insult my beauty when I take it off.