You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
This is very trueRonaldo7 said:Every woman has the slut in them. Some show it more than others.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
So your sister is a slvt?SpazzAttackk said:My sister wears makeup because she hates her freckles. I think its more of an insecurity thing. You can normally tell which caked up hoes are either insecure or slvtty
Ronaldo7 said:So your sister is a slvt?
Since you said your sister wears makeup and the inquiry about this thread asks if they wear makeup they may be sluttier, your sister fits the sluttier category.SpazzAttackk said:Every woman has the slut in them. Some show it more than others. -Mr Slinky
Just like some (only some not all) males have an undying erection for soccer players. Like.. lets say, Ronaldo?
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Ronaldo7 said:Since you said your sister wears makeup and the inquiry about this thread asks if they wear makeup they may be sluttier, your sister fits the sluttier category.
Reason #85 of why you are singlerearea said:I find 99% of men that complain women wear makeup also tell makeup-less woman they should wear more makeup to look more attractive. But alas, men have never been logical. Basically, the media has ****ed up their brains to the point where they have become so used to see made up women that they expect women to roll out of bed looking hot. If you want to ***** about women wearing makeup, then realize most women will look too plain for you without it. You cant have it both ways.
Personally I hate makeup and wish as woman it didnt exist. With no makeup, beauty wise the playing field would be more leveled. I could spend more time using it more to make myself look hotter but I rather attract a guy who is attracted to natural beauty. I see no point in covering my face with a mask and then having a guy insult my beauty when I take it off.