Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Noone here is saying astrology is a science or that it is confirmed or anything like that. We are just saying we have found out some quite interesting and accurate things about ourselves through it so it's one to keep an eye on. The way you refute an idea without probably even trying it out for yourself (go check your birth chart, you will be wondering) is just narrow minded. I don't need to ask an astrologist about anything. There are countless websites that predict with astonishing accuracy, really surprising, even details about people I personally know that are not "he is cute and sweet" type of ****.
Oh, believe me, I've checked that stuff out. None of it is compelling. What is narrow minded is not considering how you might have played yourself.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The "Million Dollar Challenge" is a publicity stunt, intended to be used as a hammer by skeptics against the paranormal. It is not in any way scientific, other than perhaps being scientifically designed to ensure that it can never be won.

Randi deserves credit for coming up with a good publicity stunt, so you have to give him that, but lots of other people caught on quickly and so designed similar stunts: Challenges to prove evolution, the age of the earth or that Jesus is not God ... all equally unscientific and designed to never be won, only used as a hammer.

It has been pointed out that the rules of the million dollar challenge (specifically the required levels of proof) could be used to throw-out any number or cherished scientific beliefs, from the big bang theory to abiogenesis, because it doesn't meet scientific requirements for evidence ...nor is it designed to do so.

http://www.dailygrail.com/features/the-myth-of-james-randis-million-dollar-challenge
 

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Oh, believe me, I've checked that stuff out. None of it is compelling. What is narrow minded is not considering how you might have played yourself.
You're just not that smart, considering the fact I have had pre-cog dreams and flashes of ESP.....well you rambling is mute to me, I'm done
 

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Oh, believe me, I've checked that stuff out. None of it is compelling. What is narrow minded is not considering how you might have played yourself.
Again, it is quite mind boggling to find out that a website knows when you break up with your girlfriend, knows for how long you two stay without talking and it just happens to describe all relationships you've had with women to fine details in a way that just cannot be bull**** and coincidence LOL
 

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That is more of a hit piece. I've actually seen more compelling pieces written on Randi by people in the skeptic community trying to be skeptical of him. One of the guys proved James Randi wasn't fair or completely truthful in his investigation of the Stanford Research Institute.

The thing is, people who have participated in the one million dollar challenge have to agree to the protocols and they have to agree that they are fair. After they go and attempt it and fail, they go whine and call the test unfair (why did you agree to it, then?).

I admire James Randi because I was a bit more gullible before I found him, and I have a much better BS detector now thanks to him.

And seriously, why are you attacking him for being gay? His sexual preferences have nothing to do with any of this.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Again, it is quite mind boggling to find out that a website knows when you break up with your girlfriend, knows for how long you two stay without talking and it just happens to describe all relationships you've had with women to fine details in a way that just cannot be bull**** and coincidence LOL
Yes, I've seen and used those websites, and they were wrong in my case.

Here's the thing you have to realize, just because they were right in your case, it doesn't prove anything. Even a broken clock is right twice a day. Extraordinary claims require extraordinary evidence and anecdotal claims don't cut it.
 

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You're just not that smart, considering the fact I have had pre-cog dreams and flashes of ESP.....well you rambling is mute to me, I'm done
:rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:


You're smart, unlike me. You get laid all the time, apparently unlike all of us. And you have supernatural ability, unlike us mere mortals.

Hahaha, you are quite the character.

I've had psychic readings done by what the psychic community would consider the best psychics in the world, including one that did a good job debating Richard Dawkins:
(interesting video)

None of their predictions panned out for me, including predictions from him and a couple others.
 

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No point you don't understand how to read a scientific paper

Here is a study though
https://dl.dropboxusercontent.com/u/3220564/JSE 291 Oshop.pdf
http://rationalwiki.org/wiki/Naropa_University

:rolleyes::rolleyes::rolleyes:

Have anything from some more credible universities?

Even Cracked made fun of them: http://www.cracked.com/article_20312_5-insane-private-schools-you-wont-believe-actually-exist.html

Like I said, there are ZERO credible studies from credible sources out there.

Look, I'm going to be honest. I know you think you're smart and all, but you are unbelievably dense.
 
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Science is performed by human beings so of course it has it's fair share of crappiness. But there's a couple of things I do love about it. If there are a number of conflicting studies a scientist or more often a team of scientists will do a literature review to summarise what we think is true what is not true and directions for future research to plug the gaps. You can see this with tricky areas like research on human diet. There are a number of contradictory recommendations for years and now basic research has plugged enough of the gaps that's very exciting Fields of research opening up like the effect of gut bacteria on the whole body.
 

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I can't get the link but if you Google on these words you'll find an interesting study from the University of Essex on the psychology of why people believe in astrology.

by N Allum - ‎Cited by 9 - ‎Related articles
Losh and colleagues, in a review of 20 years of US survey data, found that many Americans believed in astrology, with polls putting the .
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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OK there's no point debating a conspiracy theorist. Any evidence you come up with will just be labeled part of the conspiracy. The Guardian article was quite nice. However the central point was that many results reported could not be replicated. Yeah of course academic pressure leads to some dodgy studies being published. A classic was the room temperature cold fusion claims of 10 years ago. However look at the replicated part. The results are checked by other studies. I used to buy new scientist which is a pop science magazine. Even a relatively lightweight publication like that would publish errors and retractions in other words they are actually checking. I very much doubt that peer review is big in the astrology community.
 

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Correlation does not equal causation
That applies to all areas and research of science, hence the reason why I posted all those articles you failed to read, I'm assuming
 

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OK there's no point debating a conspiracy theorist. Any evidence you come up with will just be labeled part of the conspiracy. The Guardian article was quite nice. However the central point was that many results reported could not be replicated. Yeah of course academic pressure leads to some dodgy studies being published. A classic was the room temperature cold fusion claims of 10 years ago. However look at the replicated part. The results are checked by other studies. I used to buy new scientist which is a pop science magazine. Even a relatively lightweight publication like that would publish errors and retractions in other words they are actually checking. I very much doubt that peer review is big in the astrology community
Who's a conspiracy theorist? What does that term even mean? I prefer critical thinker. Not everything is a conspiracy theory.

No one said science doesn't report or retract studies, the fact is people in the industry have come out and will continue to come out about scientific studies not being repeatable. Not only due to human error, fudging statistics, cognitive biases, bribery, poor controls, and grants. Most research can't be replicated, a head doctor believes it ups to 90 percent, that means a lot
 

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Hmm that s certainly not true in Melbourne. We do have great scientists in the medical field. Recent Discovery is included bionic eyes the ability to attach Discovery is included bionic eyes the ability to attach nerves to computer chips, new treatments for Alzheimer's and the most common cancers. Tell all the people whose lives and quality of life this will save that it isn't great.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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