Women who refuse to pay for a guy ever

[tryst type]

I always jokingly misinterpret what a woman says about a date as she's going to pay for me. For example:

So you're going to pay for my movie ticket? Aw that's so nice!

I do it to see their response and to give hints of entitlement.

Most common responses by the entitled ones:

"You're kidding right?"
"Ah no, you're the man you pay"
"Don't be cheap"
"Sorry no, I'm used to being with men who treat me"

Most common responses by women who have a more generous disposition:

"Haha sure why not"
"That's fine with me"
"I don't mind paying sometimes"
"Haha let's just pay for each other right now"

Reason I'm making this post is I'm dealing with an entitled woman right now. We were making plans for tomorrow and I threw in my test, she used the "you're kidding right?" Big red flag for me.

 

[VladPatton]

"So you're going to pay for my movie ticket?"

*record needle skipping sound effect*

That's when I'm thinking..."ok, I will NOT be going out with this bıtch again"

That statement has a long string of entitlement issues ties to it, proceed with caution.

 

[JohnnyStorm]

I've never actually had this. But then I'm not really interested in entitled girls, what i tend to get...especially in movie theatres is the person at the counter assuming that I'm going to pay and then charging me for two tickets.

At this point I just try to play it cool and pay and then get the money off them...

 

[tryst type]

There are times when I don't test with my assuming question and when we go to pay I'll just say "one for (name of movie)"

It's always priceless seeing the woman's expression if they're entitled. They almost want to leave you can feel the tension as they take out their credit cards.

Then I never hear the end of it ever. That's when I cut all ties.

 

[CrimsonPanther]

i've had some occasions when these happened. i just paid for them. i have the money.
of course this move of theirs put them into the pump and dump category, and i treated them as such. one even confronted me that i didn't give her enough love and attention. they have to decide if they need my money or they need my love. whatever that is.

i usually always pay anyway. most of the girls even offer to pay sometimes to be fair. i pay anyway, and tell them to cook me something nice in return. they gladly do it. everyone is happy. but the moment i feel they expect it from me, is the moment they get no better than hookers or escorts.

 

[TheException]

I agree with the others above. Why the he11 would you want to deal with an entitled woman....when there are plenty of hot women who are NOT entitled. Screen her right out of your life...thats what screening is for.

 

[tryst type]

I agree with the others above. Why the he11 would you want to deal with an entitled woman....when there are plenty of hot women who are NOT entitled. Screen her right out of your life...thats what screening is for.

That's what my post was about. I use my assuming question of her treating me as a screening process. I was just giving example responses by each type of woman as a reference. I'm not planning on seeing this particular one anymore.

 

[TheException]

That's what my post was about. I use my assuming question of her treating me as a screening process. I was just giving example responses by each type of woman as a reference. I'm not planning on seeing this particular one anymore.

A job well done then good sir. Another low quality woman sent away.

 

[pdx1138]

There's also the ones that need you to pay because they don't manage their finances/live within their means and as such DON'T have the money to pay.

I had a plate 2 years ago doing that. It was damned annoying. I bailed out after a month.

 

[Kbish828]

Personally, I have no issues paying but it drives me crazy if the girl assumes you are paying and never makes an offer. If I go out with a girl about 3-5, and I pay for everything and she never offers then I move on.

 

[adam225]

If she can't afford to pay her own way (or doesn't want to) then she isn't good enough for you (a "so called" DJ). This isn't even questionable - ditch the skank and let some other desperate idiot have her, as that's all what she is good for.

I will never lower myself to the level of paying a women's way ever again. Sadly, I learnt this lesson the hard way. Never do it men, it's desperate, pathetic, and shows her you are a push over. Never put anymore into another person than they are prepared to put into YOU - this goes with ANYONE, not just women.

 

[Bokanovsky]

From my experience, women who never pay are, without exception, narcissistic, selfish and low quality. Conversely, all the decent girls I've dated insisted on paying half.

 

[Vice]

LOL @ this thread.

Guys, why do you find it important to take women out to places that demand monetary exchange for services? Are you trying to sleep with the women, or make them your giiiiiiiiiiirrrrrrrrrrrrrlllllllllllllffffrrieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeennnddddddddd?

This whole silly issue can be avoided by getting out of the "dating" mentality that puts weird social pressure on girls to act in a certain way.

Instead, take them out to FREE get-togethers (from now on you're removing the word "date" from your lexicon). Take her skateboarding, surfing, to the park, etc. I usually take girls out to do some errands, and then sometimes grocery shopping. Then I'll invite them over for dinner. There's no weird "who is paying" issue, and since most guys are lame and do traditional "dates", she doesn't know what is expected of her when you take her out on something more casual.

I really wish you guys would take this advice. Every time I mention this to guys at my part time work they look at me like I'm crazy and think I suck and that it doesn't work LOL. Then they label me as a lame guy because I don't drive a cool car and stay away from social media. Kind of hurts my ego, but at least I'm getting action

...f*ckers

 

[Johnny Alias]

Vice has a point. You just blow money on them and it becomes a weird deal.

I think I'll be inviting many more women over for dinner. They like that anyway and I can still ply them with booze.

Be wary as well... a lot of women who you insist on having them pay for their fair share or even just a bit hold a LOT of resentment in sometimes. They'll smile and all that crap, but when you get in a fight (possibly a drunk fight) they'll come at you with both barrels and give you mad SHVT for (in their minds) MAKING them pay when a man should pay for everything.

I've actually had that line used on me several times. "THE WAY I WAS RAISED A MAN SHOULD PAY FOR EVERYTHING!"

Fvck the way you were raised. This isn't the 50's and I'm NOT your husband thank god for that.

 

[Bokanovsky]

I usually take girls out to do some errands, and then sometimes grocery shopping. Then I'll invite them over for dinner.

So do you steal food from the grocery store? Last time I checked, buying groceries still involved spending money. Why not take her panhandling instead? Imagine actually making money on your first date! You could tell people that you needed the dough to pay for her abortion

 

[Vice]

So do you steal food from the grocery store? Last time I checked, buying groceries still involved spending money. Why not take her panhandling instead? Imagine actually making money on your first date! You could tell people that you needed the dough to pay for her abortion

u mad bro?

Buying groceries for yourself is a different context than buying dinner for both of you at a restaurant. You're not buying them for HER, you're buying them for YOURSELF. You're inviting her to eat dinner as a spur of the moment idea that you came up with since you were enjoying her company, and since you were going to make dinner anyway.

I really didn't expect to have to explicitly explain this, especially to someone your age.

 

[skinnyguy]

I feel like if you take a woman out on a date you're guaranteed not to get laid because she will think you are beta for paying for her.

 

[2Bold 4SS]

The more options you have the less you have to care about the BS any particular woman throws at you.

You know what you want and expect from a woman. You know how you want to be treated. Either she measures up or she doesn't.

 

[collosuss]

LOL @ this thread.

Guys, why do you find it important to take women out to places that demand monetary exchange for services? Are you trying to sleep with the women, or make them your giiiiiiiiiiirrrrrrrrrrrrrlllllllllllllffffrrieeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeennnddddddddd?

This whole silly issue can be avoided by getting out of the "dating" mentality that puts weird social pressure on girls to act in a certain way.

Instead, take them out to FREE get-togethers (from now on you're removing the word "date" from your lexicon). Take her skateboarding, surfing, to the park, etc. I usually take girls out to do some errands, and then sometimes grocery shopping. Then I'll invite them over for dinner. There's no weird "who is paying" issue, and since most guys are lame and do traditional "dates", she doesn't know what is expected of her when you take her out on something more casual.

I really wish you guys would take this advice. Every time I mention this to guys at my part time work they look at me like I'm crazy and think I suck and that it doesn't work LOL. Then they label me as a lame guy because I don't drive a cool car and stay away from social media. Kind of hurts my ego, but at least I'm getting action

...f*ckers

Niceee... Never that about it that way

 

[MrNiceGuy23]

Huge red flag for me when a girl refuses to pay ever, also a huge red flag of a beta afc if he never lets the girl pay.

Things are expensive, and relationships end for the dumbest reasons nowadays. I refuse to fork over the bulk of the cash in a relationship when there is no certainty in anything anymore.

My ex and I would rotate, not to a specific schedule but if I had been picking up the tabs recently she would tell me to stop and she'd pay for a few things and we would alternate. I think splitting checks at the table is cheap but it's a give and take. You should pay sometimes, she should pay the other times. Women have just as many opportunities to make money as men do, so there's no excuse to not pay.

**** the "I'm used to men treating me." Women ain't children, and I'm not running a charity event.